Ok different topic as men we gotta stop f***ing every two bit b**** with a hole between her legs. Know your worth kings.

At the same time it's important knowing the best way to behave and approach towards a women, like keeping the masculine frame while talking by having the laidback tone. I'm not saying you gotta act like someone else, but avoid falling into the trap where it makes you seem nervous or whatever.

Just my 2 cents

His channel's name alone should warn you not to waste your time and energy. Just be yourself. But for some reason, if you feel like being yourself isn't enough, do something about it and genuinely transform yourself into the person you want to be. It's going to take time, but the end result is that you'll genuinely be a better person instead of faking it like how these online gurus tell you.

Talking to my sister-in-law she told me the same thing too. Currently I'm working on myself like making more money and consistently working out so I can become the best version of myself.

I suffered from some body dysmorphia last month but at last I was like f*** it and just learn to accept who I am. Why worry over the things you can't change ya know

This is true. It's important to stay true to yourself and find what makes you uniquely interesting, but you also want to project confidence. Unfortunately, in this world, it's just natural for people to associate shyness, insecurity, and awkwardness with low value or even creepiness. Take it from me.

Nobody's gonna care about your backstory and why you're so insecure. They're just gonna assume your lack of confidence is due to incompetence or your own doing.

Lately my confidence and personality has seen some improvement, it takes time to polish but I'm keeping at it. I really want to steer away from this awkward type of personality I got, my friends noticed it and I think it caused couple of girls to curve me.

I used to be outgoing and s*** back in early middle school but something happened and I ended up being kinda shy. Again, I'm slowly getting back up there though

I remember you now. We had that brief talk about looks dysmorphia and all.

Yeah, man, keep at it. Have a purpose in life. Go through every day with purpose and know what it is that you want.

Like I said before, people don't care how hard of a life you've had. They don't care if you've dealt with some emotional damage in the past that made you turn out insecure or socially awkward. They only care that you're giving them weird vibes and they'll write you off as someone they don't wanna associate with. It's harsh, but that's how it is.

I'll give you one example.

I could have been good friends with this girl, but I probably blew it with hesitation. This was just a friendship that I was hoping for. She gave me her social media info and asked me to let her know what days/times I worked so she could come by. I kinda played it off like I wasn't interested by never telling her when I worked and took a while to respond her message on social media, only responding with something generic.

If you're interested in someone, let the person know. Don't play these games because chances are it messes up the natural flow of things. Of course don't be pushy or clingy, but be genuine about your opinions and feelings.

Overthinking can easily mess up your relationships and potential relationships with people.

Im not saying confidence isn’t important, but the idea that alpha and beta is real thing among human beings is silly to me. We’re more complicated than that. We’re not a pack of f***ing wolves.

Yo, I relate heavily to this. It's kinda wild how our struggles since adolescence are similar.

I was a quiet kid, but I easily made friends with basically everyone back in the day. Popular kids liked me. I was pretty popular myself, although I was pretty quiet compared to the other popular kids. I just always had this cool, calm, and collected persona that other kids gravitated to.

It feels weird talking about all of this as grown adults, but what happened in our younger days plays a role in how we are today. I haven't been all that confident ever since certain things happened in my teenage years.

No matter how much I try to be happy and confident again, I haven't seen long-term success despite some good runs for a few months. I'm trying to make this my year.

People don't care about your backstory. They only care about who you are now, so don't expect any empathy or sympathy from them. Work on yourself and you'll be able to say you overcame all this.

Like idk if the concept of high and low value men is still like...realistic, that's kinda how I see it now. Since Alpha and Beta are practically buzzwords thrown around by losers

I could have been good friends with this girl, but I probably blew it with hesitation. This was just a friendship that I was hoping for. She gave me her social media info and asked me to let her know what days/times I worked so she could come by. I kinda played it off like I wasn't interested by never telling her when I worked and took a while to respond her message on social media, only responding with something generic.

No offense this sounds like something a person would do to a chick after watching ams

Cringe

The reason I transitioned from being outgoing to shy/reserved later in middle school was from some people showing disdain towards me, it's pathetic really. Shared the same story with my friend and they were like "Yo how could you let several people change who you are as a person" and it hit me.

The act of gaining confidence and letting your past bad situations go is important not only for relationships but your career and building friendships. Like you said, people don't really give a s*** about why you're acting a certain way

Watching a YouTube channel won't get you laid wtf

The only source I’ve read that gives sound advice without being misogynistic is The Rational Male.

I grew up in a religious setting and it was weird to me that ppl hated me for being a genuinely easy going laid back guy. Ppl think your happiness is fake for some reason.

There are some demons and toxic women out there, at least some of this material helps ppl to distance themselves from those types

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He has some genuinely useful content about getting your s*** together and how to not get played but some of his stuff is strange, like what is up with him making every girl eat his ass lol

Bro a positive role model is not someone who educates you about alpha/beta nonsense and tried to train you on how to adapt your behaviour to f*** a girl

he’s a good guy. delivers good content for a lot of these kids that are lost out here.

synopsis spent all night yelling at his girl, your post was a direct attack at everything he stands for

super cringe s*** like this is just a program for closet-losers

AMS slander lol