What are your thoughts on this? I’m now dating a woman who’s significantly older than me (I’m 36, she’s 52) and things are going extremely well so far. We both work full time, I have a kid but she doesn’t, is extremely mature, and isn’t overly clingy. I haven’t dated in a very long time, since my ex-wife left me smh and this the first time since where I found a woman who’s very caring.

Going back to the topic, I know there’s a big stigma against age gap in relationships and from time to time I feel little self conscious about it. What are your thoughts on age gaps in general? Yay or nay? Inputs appreciated

The older you get, I think people care less.

With the exception of like 20+ years, or dating someone under the age of 18 because that's just illegal.

My girl is 4 years younger than me, before her I dated someone 5 years older than me. It's kinda normal at those increments but 52 is wild lol

Long as both parties are 18+ who gives a damn what others think. It can look funny but at the end of the day I can't judge who others decide to spend their time with

this nigga old as F*** !!!!!!!!

she was a teenager when you was in yo daddys balls

im 26 and would date an old ass b\*\*\*\* too

Think my case is special given the 16-year gap and on top of that the woman being older, but everyday I either feel good or bad about it. When we’re alone together? No problem

Out in public? It’s a different story, in the sense I get nervous and little insecure. At the same time I don’t want it to grow to the point of sabotaging our relationship.

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Right now I'm 29 and my girl is 22. I usually go for a few ages up but we ended up together somehow. she's mature knows what she wants and family oriented plus more so the age thing doesn't even matter anymore since she checks so many other boxes that I appreciate.

breh yall gonna need to be looking into old folks homes soon

get that bag OG

lmfao yo avi the realest s*** ever

Funny all my life I’ve always found older woman just as attractive as the younger counterparts. With that said I’m also wondering how others would react.

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If yall genuinely kick it, are mature and are cool and have good chemistry not only for the now but in your trajectories as individuals, I dont see nothing wrong.

Me personally, if you find a 20 year old relatable and youre like 37 imma look at you sideways but thats just me

Most peoples reasonings are shallow and predatory which is why it gets its reputation, but im also of a non western opinion where many young folk are working and preparing for a family so i can see it from a lot of different views

If you’re happy with her and if she’s into you then who cares what people think

Age gaps are only an issue if it’s an adult dating children

people usually rob the cradle this nigga robbing the grave

Outside of the age gap, there aren’t any issues with our relationship (So far). Appreciate the answer though

No problemo. Im ngl gang i did not peep your age gap, im actually really curious on if you’ve thought about growing old together and what that looks like for you and her

If youre okay with that, dont need to respond if you dont want to

Not planning to settle down with her or anything, seeing her more as a short term (or maybe long term) relationship at most.

If you both 30+ it does not matter at all and anyone trippin at that point are just dumb asl

Do you king 👑 🙏 @op