Hell nah, that's nasty. If I cook something that actually makes a mess I'll clean it with the quickness. Only time I leave something in the sink is if I gotta go to class or if it's just like a single utensil and like a tiny plate

I have ppl do it for me LOL nice try nigga I'm rich

Oh you just like 15. F*** outta this grown up thread

nah bruh im 16 also ur just jealous im rich u broke ass

that dude aint right bro
sounds like aspergers to me

He call me a d***head so I gave him the d*** then i mean she

dead

In the second morning of living with a new roomie after finishing my undergrad. So sorta in the same boat.

I could sommmmmmewhat understand where your guy coming from if he's had lots of people be s***ty roomies in the past, or came from a fam he had to clean up lots after.

My best advice is to simply match his energy.

if he wants to live together but do everything independantly that's fine, just means you should too.

If he continues to do dumb s*** like separate the dishes and cleaning, maybe get a cheap set of your own dishes and your own recycle bin.

PS, u know him prior to this?

congrats on having rich parents

lmaooo u jealous

No conversation is a little weird but might just be quiet/introverted and needs to break out of his shell a bit more.

The other stuff is sus though. I would bring it up to him casually without sounding accusatory for both of you to establish rules in the house, ie: someone does dishes or takes out trash specific days and whatnot. Better to discuss that stuff upfront then let it keep going on.

Roommate may also just be a total s***head who’s somehow gotten this far in life. My freshman yr undergrad roommate sucked and a few months in I knew there was no coming around for him. I’d keep cool and do your best interacting with them until you’ve exhausted all efforts. Regardless start looking for future roommates now.

Just f***ing quote me next time a******

My roomates like this rn. It's me and three college chicks, they mad petty about doing each others dishes. Like they will have a sink full of hot water and detergent and they will waste it to leave like 2 forks and a cup on the bench cos it ain't theirs. I always do the dishes on the bench when I do em and they act like I just slapped em cos I did one of the others dishes for em. In ur situation I'd say it's easier to keep the peace and put up with some pettiness in the long run.

Yeah I'm not gonna bother having a conversation about it cause in the end he's not technically doing anything wrong. And I CBA to try and convince him (though it seems obvious) that cooperation benefits all of us.

bro lol bring it up like a regular adult. You don’t have to confront him about it just have an easy talk. Anyone would take notice of how he’s acting. You’re not hovering over him just cause you’re noticing that type of stuff.

Eh it's just that I've talked to him about super minor stuff like cleaning some dishes he left for a hot minute and even brought up gently he got pissed for like 3 days. At this point I'm just trying to avoid contact as much as possible

S*** my bad fam. So the dude is a weirdo?

Yeah I figure I can deal with these minor things for the rest of the year. Talking to him could make things better but it could also make things worse lmao

Lol yeah I feel ya was in same position my freshman yr. I’d let him be then. Just focus on making new friends to hang out with and potentially live with next yr.

Yeah I already got some homies lined up, just trying to leave sad weirdo dude alone and hope he don't bother me

Ayy dope maybe try pulling a miracle worker if courses ease up

He's definitely being a d*** but it sounds like he has bad social skills so he might not even realize it, at least when it comes to the not talking and one word answers.

Lmao.

Your roommate sounds just like me; I have a suite mate right now that I’ve ghosted ever since we moved in back in August. I believe I’ve only talked to him about 2 times since then and I only see him about once a week even though he’s always coming in and out the suite everyday.

He’s cool though; he’s a pretty clean person and we take turns cleaning the bathroom even though I never talk to him.

Your roommate sounds like he’ll be great to live with honestly; he cleans up after himself and doesn’t cause you any problems. The trash thing is a little overdramatic, but just get your own trash can and put your s*** in there instead.

Your roommate could be ALOT worse, appreciate who you have.

U didn’t post anything to quote, wut

Be the better man Smoofy and bury him 6 ft deep