I try not to even cold approach anymore tbh I atleast try and make eye contact with the chick, and if she holds it I know she’s gotten a good look at how I look instead of a random dude popping up in her face 🤷🏾♂️ Not staring ofc cuz that’s weird, but you know what I mean. Well I hope you do
na bro cold approaching is p much dead in terms of success rate
ngl you weird if you just go up to a random girl and shoot your shot
just make conversation when you naturally interact w them and gauge out whether theyre feeling you at all
I don’t even have the heart to cold approach women so salute to you for keeping on doing it even tho you was out here getting shot down repeatedly
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Y’all about to fry mans
some girls prolly talking to you outta fear of how men handle rejection. women have to be nice and play it safe. the world is crazy
I see what yall are doing ngl. You saw that other thread of that weirdo nigga following that white girl off the subway. Stop projecting, that’s literally the exact opposite of how I approach girls lol
Word for word, what did your last conversation sound like
What did you do to help you get in the right headspace? I know a lot of people say "Work on yourself" and that's true, but I'm fumbling hard even in the DMs and texts before getting a girl to meet up
Also, how did you know you were ready and beyond the point of being in the wrong headspace?
Honestly my situation is probably going to be completely different from yours lol. My life pretty easy ngl, but I wasnt taking advantage of the blessings I was given
Ask yourself: Has looking at the girl first and seeing if they look back worked better or worse for you than cold approaching?
It’s worked better tbh but it doesnt happen as often as I’d like it too lmfao. Usually whenever it does happen, I’m actually on campus being busy
Do you approach girls in other public spaces like stores or malls? It seems like doing that in one setting all the time is just gonna cause trouble. Especially in a small college.
S***, I don’t typically go to the mall tbh so nah. Havent approached at a store, but I def think I would if the situation is right
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Lmaooo, def not revealing my identity on here. I’m about 5’10, black with a nice beard. I’m fit, and I can dress well. I get a lot of success when I go out, and women tell me I’m handsome all the time.
It’s worked better tbh but it doesnt happen as often as I’d like it too lmfao. Usually whenever it does happen, I’m actually on campus being busy
Man for me whenever it happens I become stubborn and not go for it
Lmaooo, def not revealing my identity on here. I’m about 5’10, black with a nice beard. I’m fit, and I can dress well. I get a lot of success when I go out, and women tell me I’m handsome all the time.
Ahhh here lies the problem
“I’m about 5’10”
So you’re really 5’8
na bro cold approaching is p much dead in terms of success rate
def have bagged a good amount cold approaching, but yeah the success rate isnt the same compared to when I peep a girl choosin on me
OP made a topic asking if he's wrong but already decided the answer is NO
Not even lol. I’m leaning towards not cold approaching anymore tbh. I’ll only approach if a girl actually notices me from now on
ngl you weird if you just go up to a random girl and shoot your shot
just make conversation when you naturally interact w them and gauge out whether theyre feeling you at all
There has been a time where I met a girl at the library but I f***ed up cuz I kept the convo short. I’m 90% sure if I walked her home, I would've gotten a much different result lmao. It works sometimes 🤷🏾♂️
I don’t even have the heart to cold approach women so salute to you for keeping on doing it even tho you was out here getting shot down repeatedly
I’ll have atleast 3 girls on my line just waiting for me to give em some attention so I really dont trip on rejection
Y’all about to fry mans
Nah I look better than 80% of this site no bs
why are randoms confronting you about this? only reason would be if you creeped a female out and they're telling people you're a creep..need more info tbh
This and them niggas on campus just p**** hungry trust me we all been there before. They tryna cape because they scary and dont have confidence to talk to women so they'd rather try and b**** you out at a kickback. F*** em stay solid
Word for word, what did your last conversation sound like
Word for word? Lol. This was yesterday
Pulled up on shawty, she was walking an opposite direction from me. Just stopped and said “Hey, are you busy?” She said yeah, she’s working on an assignment. I go “damn, I thought you were pretty cute so I just thought I’d stop you to let you know.” She says thanks and kinda looks at me to get a good look at me. I ask if it’s cool if I walk with her, she says yeah she doesn't mind. So we just walked and talked about random s*** lmao. Asked where she was from, how school has been for her, what she did over the weekend, what she liked to eat, etc. She was a cool girl and the convo flowed, but idk she was too young anyways.
Girl told me she was a freshman, I was kinda turned off after that. I asked for her number like mid convo cuz I told her once we get to know each other better, we could link up and get ramen in the future. She said she’s rather give me her Insta. I get it, and when we walked to where she has to go, I just tell her imma talk to her later. Was a regular ass convo lmfao I dont try too hard or use corny pickup lines.. just casual convo. I always have the best success this way. She didn’t follow me back on IG, but I feel like it was largely due to the fact she was younger. Don’t care tho, not interested in a girl that young anyways. She prolly aint used to guys talking to her yet anyways