It’s just a mindstate. I can only speak to my generation, but most 25 and unders have really been able to successfully replace real in person contact with FT. And alot of em don’t even be talking fr, it’s just like having a person there. Some consoling s*** I guess
I would ask if you’re someone that falls under that umbrella OP
My brothers girl is like that too literally makes interacting with him impossible since he be running off to call her every 30 minutes.
Definitely a big no for me but hey if these people are happy more power to them.
out
Yeah if yall ft 1-2 hours a day and she wants more let her know its too much
I had experiences like this, one time i was talking to a girl that liked to ft while she studied and we always ended up like 6 hrs on call, and then she wanted to sleep with the call on and s***.
You let her know how u are, maybe try to compromise or sum if its that important to her
bro me and my girl been together for almost 6 years and she still wants to be on the phone with me all day, even in our own house while she's in her art studio and i'm in my room
We don't do it bc she knows I like my alone time but whenever she goes to visit her family I gotta spend at least a few hours with her on the phone almost everyday. I'm glad she's still that into me but damn i wouldn't mind it if it was just a short phone call. Ngl I miss some of those calls on purpose and lie that i'm out doing something
Yeah its mad annoying to have that pressure
Ill talk to my girl for hours but when it happens naturally and we have time, she never forces me to and sometimes I wont call her for a few days and she doesnt mind bc we text
She just a sheep to her phone op. I don’t really like talking on the phone for Hellas , my limit is one hour
"I guess it’s because she wants a relationship and I do too eventually"
will your character development get a whole thread? Need a post at minimum fr
I can kinda relate to this on a long distance relationship scale where I was literally having to talk to this woman the entire day if she wasn’t working to keep her secure and that wasn’t enough. My circumstances were unusual though. In other context I usually don’t mind. Shorty I talk to now we face time 1-5 hours but we also only do this like 2 or 3 days a week
It’s just a mindstate. I can only speak to my generation, but most 25 and unders have really been able to successfully replace real in person contact with FT. And alot of em don’t even be talking fr, it’s just like having a person there. Some consoling s*** I guess
I would ask if you’re someone that falls under that umbrella OP
i hate that s*** but i get why ppl like it
Clingy probably due to desperation trying to find a man since she has a kid and the window of opportunity (to her) is closing.
Run. Just slowly phase it out while learning boundaries yourself. Not every call needs to be answered. Just say you’re busy. Or if you’re a thug straight up say you don’t like talking on the phone so much.
had a girl like that when I was about 16 and they get all of their world perspective from TV and movies