My so called “friends” treat me like trash and are genuinely terrible people who deserve the worst, and yet they always seem to succeed in all their endeavors. It drives me mad, and I am starting to genuinely hate these people. And yet, if I ditch them, I will be completely alone for the next 2 years, people have already formed their college “friend groups.” Man I’m just so sick of it all.

I switched colleges after 2 years i know what that lonely s***s like

honestly you should cut them off if you’re being treated like trash.

Those aren’t your friends so why are you with them? You are already alone pretty much @op

Explain how their genuinely terrible people

You’re right, I am already alone. I guess I just didn’t want to accept that, but oh well.

They look down on others and make fun of people constantly, sounds insignificant but it’s infuriating

there is nothing bad in not having a group in college. i was in the same situation, had terrible friends who just used me, but after cutting me off and being more with people outside the college makes you feel a lot better. while studying and being in the college just talk with people who r open in general or more alone and they are usually a lot better people to be with

while u being friends with them u r simply being the same by approving it. so think about it

being friends with someone u don’t like is the same as disrespecting yourself

Your probably right, but the thought of spending 90% of my time in college alone in my room after cutting everyone off is unappealing. I guess I have no choice tho

u dont have anyone in the city even? it is actually pretty hard
but is it worse than being with s***ty friends?

Everyone else is back home, hours away from my college campus

Isn’t their maybe clubs or societies u can join to make some new friends?

I’ve tried, but nobody wants to do anything outside of those clubs. The friendships just feel superficial I guess. I just wish I had become part of a different crowd freshman and sophomore year.

Dope avy btw

i feel this bro.... i once joined a friend group that were all about being memey 24/7 and just taking the piss out of anyone and anything
there were times around them where it was actually quite hilarious, i'm not gonna lie and honestly a bunch of memories were made in that 2 year span

but at some point, i started to deal with depression really heavily and i had to take time away from hanging with them so i could deal with myself.... well aware that i was going through some emo s***, they saw this as just an opportunity - spamming me "kys" and s*** lol obviously they were joking but it actually really hurt me tbh

some friends aren't really your friends....
i never really stayed friends with any of them... turns out the only real interest we shared was smoking weed and being redactards

I've been losing friends and finding peace but honestly that sound like a fair trade to me

If your friends make you feel like s*** why even stay friends with em? You can still make new friends bro

Sound like normal people to me. Can you give a better example?

Are they racist or something?

naur sry

Do you feel like you can't distance yourself because of shared memories and fear of not finding better people as friends?

Sounds like you might be projecting and taking everything too seriously

This sounds like Terrible way to live @op you’re better off cutting them off

Not to cape for people

But most are exactly like you described

Even the people they talk about shouldn’t take it seriously, people talk just to talk, they don’t even be doing fr

I was in a similar situation bro, they were negative people and I realised I was just hanging with them because I didn't wanna be alone. I kinda cut them off and my life is better, but that's only because I've made an effort to see other friends more and recalibrate. If there were no other option I would still be friends with them, tbh I think just kick it with them until better people come along if you really got no one else, who knows they might even lead you to meeting better people through those connections

Have some dignity op, that was embarrassing to read. You’re afraid to stop hanging around people who treat you like trash because it’ll be impossible to find friends in college for two entire years? Did you even read what you wrote?

You deserve it if you’re that terrified of being by yourself.