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  • Nuja 🫶🏾
    Oct 4, 2021
    EMY

    My so called “friends” treat me like trash and are genuinely terrible people who deserve the worst, and yet they always seem to succeed in all their endeavors. It drives me mad, and I am starting to genuinely hate these people. And yet, if I ditch them, I will be completely alone for the next 2 years, people have already formed their college “friend groups.” Man I’m just so sick of it all.

    This was my life all through my childhood. It wasn’t until I turned 20 I had enough where we had a mini gathering and the entire time was them trying to embarrass me in front the girls we were with. I hurt for the longest because agoraphobia had taken over my life at this point too and I had nobody or no social interactions outside of KTT. By the time I was 24 I started making friends again albeit through the internet but I was also meeting people irl because of it. At 29 I have a definitive circle of friends now I trust with my life and associates I love more than anything. Someone told me in my early 20s the best friends I make in life would be in my mid 20s and they weren’t wrong. Cut those toxic friends off completely and start anew. Make connections with people who have your best interests at heart.because they do exist. You realize how much time you waste on bad people when you find friends who genuinely love you. Again I was in the same position where my “friends” just treated other people horrible talked down on everyone and made me feel like s***. The best thing I ever did was let them go.