I’ve kind of isolated myself from ppl in the last year and a half. I enjoy spending time with my partner and my close friends but honestly I don’t have a real positive opinion of most other people so isolating myself is how I’ve found peace.

And it ain’t even like I’m one of them loner mfs, I’m one of those dudes whose chill, good looking, well connected, funny, well respected. I get love and know a lot of of different people. People tend to see me as a leader because they know I don’t depend on their opinions for my self esteem/I stand on what I believe.

I have no problem being charming or connecting with people. It’s just as I get older I realize I don’t like most people (which is ironic because I’m a extrovert and work in sales.) Everyone I know says I could talk to anyone and everyone.

I think most men are stupid & goofy, I think most women are stupid & annoying. I just feel a disdain for most humans . I only feel at peace when by myself truly or I guess with my girl/fam/really close friends. I don’t even like going out any more unless its with my girl because I don’t want to interact with all these people I see out here or even have to maneuver around them or pretend like their existence isn’t annoying to me.

I see people on social media focusing on things I think are a waste of time, or see them sharing superficial opinions or societal attitudes I don’t agree with and I just get kind of disgusted.

Most socializing or anything besides focusing on myself feels like a waste of time and from my experience most people won’t truly care about you/connect with you beyond a superficial level even if y’all hit it off.

I also try to be self aware and think to myself “am I valid to feel this way? Am I focusing on the negative instead of the positives? Am I blocking my own good experiences by feeling how I feel about people? Am I generalizing and viewing things from a biased perspective? Am I too judgmental?” & I try to see if maybe there’s another way to be or feel but I usually just end up feeling exactly how i always feel about people and the world.

Occasionally I do gain some good perspective from talking to other people though or I learn something or I build a meaningful connection.

I just am wondering if I am always going to feel this way about people and the world. I’ve felt this way a long time. I just want to build wealth and separate myself from the f***ery.

Before y’all say s*** Ik this s*** is long but when are my threads not long let’s be fr

Didn’t your girl straight up knock you the f*** out?

“I just feel a disdain for most humans.”

answered your own q!

Hell no lmao

People are s*** sometimes but what are you gonna do huh

A little of column A, a little of column B

Yeah but I’m saying like..is it wrong that I feel that way? Like should I not feel that way?

I try to feel different because sometimes I feel like thinking or embracing that mindset makes me feel kind of negative/nihilistic…but then I always end up coming back to feeling that way about ppl/the world

i agree

@op , you can start being curious about everything. Okay, the people you've come across are annoying. Why? You feel a disdain. Why? Explore yourself and look at the situations from those lenses

you done shrooms yet bro?

It’s a funny question it’s ur life outlook u decide 😂 personally it comes across odd to me but it’s not unusual. plenty of ppl share your disdain for others

The best plan I’ve figured out is to try to build relationships with those I think aren’t s*** and disregard the rest but even that ain’t fool proof

U right tho

Lol yeah I think so too but idk

How come?

Bad way to live

Not reading all that but im
Going to guess its you and not everyone else

Hey op, how's the water? (great 9min video from a legend RIP, dont even have to watch just listen)

It’s not even like just people I’ve come across in my personal life, I feel like most personalities I see even online or on platforms I find annoying too. S*** I even find some of my friends and fam annoying I just tolerate them because we mutually care about each other.

I ask myself why I feel that disdain and I don’t always have an answer it’s just there.

Yeah bro I’ve done shrooms and LSD both.

Honestly don’t think I’m in a place where I can do psychedelics again think I may have a bad trip or emotional break down or some s***. And I don’t like being that high for that long.

Any advice or other perspective on how to not feel like this then?

smart

I also don’t want to say some crazy s*** to my fam or my girl if I did trip. I usually get hyper compassionate and emotional when I do shrooms. Makes me feel out of control.

Be open minded and understand you don’t really know these people enough to hate them

interesting. if a next time happens, maybe just let the compassion take over