ppl itt tryna shame u or change ur mind have no clue lol some ppl are just wired differently and that’s ok

even if all u learned from a mf was patience, they were still a teacher yfm

And it ain’t even like I’m one of them loner mfs, I’m one of those dudes whose chill, good looking, well connected, funny, well respected. I get love and know a lot of of different people. People tend to see me as a leader because they know I don’t depend on their opinions for my self esteem/I stand on what I believe.

Yes even those uncomfortable conversations where you feel like you’re on a different planet than the other person can be growing experiences.

Personally I’d be one sheltered mf without rednecks teaching me outdoorsy s*** despite the fact I can’t stand 9/10 of the s*** they do/talk about

Coming from somebody who struggles with feeling empathy and generally feeling dissatisfied with most people since childhood, work on it.

Learning social norms as somebody who feels separate from it all made it a lot easier to mimic, mask, and charm.

Now, I border on sociopathy when I interact with most people because I struggle to connect with them genuinely.

It's not fun not being able to empathize with your own girlfriend or family. It's not fun to be irritated by the mere presence of somebody else. Try to breathe and embrace reality for what it is.

Were you angry all the time when you were younger?

I'm not gonna read all this respectfully to save myself sometime and we've had different convos before actually, all I will say is yea it's more likely than not just you

tbh, first thing that popped in my mind though he is an unaware domestic abuse victim and bringing it up in a joking manner won't really help him acknowlege/get passed it.

@op please go seek some professional help, even if it's going to an AA meeting, find a space besides the internet to really process what you're feeling

surround urself with more girls, they are enjoyable to hang out with

@op ngl i think ur attitude on this is rlly common

whats the last time u heard someone talking abt how they sincerely like the general population lol

Little bit of both?

Idk man enjoy your peace, theres nothing wrong with that. Just dont be preemptively rude to people expecting the worst from them. (Not saying you do that btw I just know from experience that its a easy trap to fall in.) “Most people” is still limited and defined by your perspective which will constantly change over time.

Adding social media to the mix makes this whole conversation even more confusing because it causally puts on display some of our worst traits as people that in most cases would never see the light of day. Overexposure to that side of humanity could definitely and justifiably lead to some bitterness and distrust.

Time with your close circle is good and should be treated as a reminder of how “good” people can be as opposed to how “bad” others can, imo

I kinda felt similar in HS

One thing that changed my mind was playing poker. You spend hours with people you wouldn't otherwise and see sides that you wouldn't normally

I'd also advise generalizing less, people are extraordinarily variable

Real. The most annoying kid in my middle school taught me important lessons about group dynamics and power structures

Both things can and probably are true

I dislike a whole ton of motherfuckers but I would never say that I despise humans or think of them as annoying or dumb or any stupid s*** like that

Damn OP back

Its u

brighten up kid

Meditation (and therapy) could probably help @op

I think those feelings you have about others are “normal” given what you describe. but it sounds like there more to it/more to unpack.

yes, you are 100% a sociopath @Op.
visit your doctor and get on antipsychotics immediately.

No I agree humans are trash and a mistake

most people are dumbfucks

dfw goated

Most people are pretty nice imo, as long as you're not a meany pants when talking to em.