No it’s just harder to find a quality match. Attractive women have never had as much access to validation as they do now so they’re never looking for a long term relationship because it means giving up the constant male attention from instagram and tinder.
Shouldnt you be rizzing up a bih at your work place?
I'm definitely jaded as far as long term relationships go. I've been married for 12 years and am pretty much only in it for financial reasons at this point. If it suited either of us to divorce, it would happen quickly, but it's just more convenient to live together since we have a kid and renting is so expensive. We've separated twice in the past couple years and both times it was a headache.
Best of luck to anyone who manages to make it work, but I absolutely never want to get married again.
May i ask if you felt this way going into your relationship? Or did it naturally progress?
What grindset is this
It's not a grindset
Just have fun when you're young. Relationships are nice but they're work too. Be a kid for as long as possible
Give yourself one year after graduating college to get adjusted to the real world and then try to lock it down with someone
Be a savage between the ages of 18-21
This doesn't apply if you actually meet someone and the connection is real but let that happen randomly tbh, and if it doesn't happen don't sweat it just keep being a hoe.
If I could advise college kids to do anything it's f*** as many people as humanely possible before you need to work for a living and have your social life smashed and atomized by capitalism
It might be for me. The only women I’ve ever wanted to spend the rest of my life with has BPD. We planned our entire future together and she ended up cheating on me and discarding me like I never existed. I knew she was mentally unstable but damn it’s gonna take me a while to recover from that
You can never be alone if you are content with yourself. Master this and your perspective changes.
Give yourself one year after graduating college to get adjusted to the real world and then try to lock it down with someone
Be a savage between the ages of 18-21
This doesn't apply if you actually meet someone and the connection is real but let that happen randomly tbh, and if it doesn't happen don't sweat it just keep being a hoe.
If I could advise college kids to do anything it's f*** as many people as humanely possible before you need to work for a living and have your social life smashed and atomized by capitalism
promiscuity derives from atomization
It's not a grindset
Just have fun when you're young. Relationships are nice but they're work too. Be a kid for as long as possible
Fair
Umm yes they are that’s why more people are single nowadays they’re not putting up with that bs
ah yes.........people are getting into relationships LESS today because reltionships are BETTER........makes perfect sense
ah yes.........people are getting into relationships LESS today because reltionships are BETTER........makes perfect sense
people aren’t settling anywhere near as much and that’s a good thing
the amount of relationships are down but that’s bc the amount of abusive or s***ty ones are as well
people aren’t settling anywhere near as much and that’s a good thing
the amount of relationships are down but that’s bc the amount of abusive or s***ty ones are as well
Proof that relationships today are any less abusive than they used to be?
Proof that relationships today are any less abusive than they used to be?
never said that, just said the standards are higher and that less abusive relationships are happening (as in the number of them is down), but even with that, domestic violence stats and other s*** have been dropping for like 30 years
Yall gotta realize @EMY lives in a cyclical bubble.
maybe idk, haven’t had a relationship that lasted more than 2 years, the last one really broke me, idk if i can really invest myself into someone else, it’s funny how i used to picture myself finding true love like the families who surrounded me as a kid then to find out about all the cheating and other problems they had
Niggas would ratter romanticize old-timey relationships where shawty couldn't even have her own bank account instead of learning how to just evolve to be better partners in today's modern era lmaooooo
It's not a grindset
Just have fun when you're young. Relationships are nice but they're work too. Be a kid for as long as possible
wish i grew up on this advice instead of tryna find “the one”
wish i grew up on this advice instead of tryna find “the one”
Yeah, and of course if you do meet that one in a million person def follow through with it, but don't feel like you need to, and just operate on having fun until/if something "more" comes along
Yall gotta realize @EMY lives in a cyclical bubble.
What exactly does this mean?
Niggas would ratter romanticize old-timey relationships where shawty couldn't even have her own bank account instead of learning how to just evolve to be better partners in today's modern era lmaooooo
Yea ya damn right