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  • Nov 28, 2019
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    yuuurp

    Can we admit that Chinese parenting is superior to all other races parenting at least lol? they got 6 year olds playing 3 instruments makes me wish my parents had a little bit of interest in me as a child

    attributing good parenting simply to the amount of skills a child has is really unfortunate

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    i am sasuke

    attributing good parenting simply to the amount of skills a child has is really unfortunate

    Maybe, but they are better parents tho, that’s true

  • Nov 28, 2019
    i am sasuke

    to be honest racism is about power structures. one line of anti asian sentiment in a hip hop song may be corny, but a black person cannot systemically oppress an east asian person really. and i think people have also become a lot more aware of their own words in recent times as well. furthermore i really don’t think anti-asian sentiment by black people is at all of a comparable experience to anti-black sentiment by asians, because colorism in asia has been a thing since pre-western contact even—it’s a lot more deep rooted and older generations take it very seriously.

    Colorism among Asians didn't always start out as a racial thing. It just happened within the countries they were in due to the idea that poor people were darker and wealthy people were lighter. It was classism at first. However, when Asian people started immigrating to the United States, this colorist perspective definitely influenced how they viewed other races.

    You probably already knew of this, but I wanted to put this out there for the others.

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Enpax

    Maybe, but they are better parents tho, that’s true

    that's a pretty massive generalization. you can ask my Asian friends who had been physically and mentally abused by their parents for not reaching the toppest of top in school and life in general.

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Enpax

    Maybe, but they are better parents tho, that’s true

    wew boy I have a story for you to prove that wrong

    if only you knew how that "good" parenting leads to sheltered asian children acting out by breaking all those rules their parents bestowed them

    abuse isnt parenting cuz

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Enpax

    Maybe, but they are better parents tho, that’s true

    parenting is a lot more complex than simply having ur child be able to display an ability to do certain skills

    that isnt to say thats bad parenting

    but solely equating that to being a good parent is harmful. your child can play 3 instruments but if you don’t emotionally support them and teach them a healthy attachment style, help them feel safe, let them be happy, etc. etc. you are trying to raise a puppet rather than a child.

  • Ellinia šŸ°
    Nov 28, 2019
    Ignance

    you spitting this whole thread

    I try

  • Nov 28, 2019
    ASAKI

    that's a pretty massive generalization. you can ask my Asian friends who had been physically and mentally abused by their parents for not reaching the toppest of top in school and life in general.

    This entire website is based on massive generalizations. Obviously individual parents are good and bad, I’m just talking from what I’ve seen

  • Nov 28, 2019
    flackojodye

    Asians been racist bruh especially the boomers

    But i cant deny that their are racists in my family/cousins/uncles etc and im mexican

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Answer: because Black people are at the bottom of the racial totem pole because we are the exact ā€œoppositeā€ of White and all other ethnic groups are between us and them on the racial spectrum. Those that have internalized said racism and aspire to be White and/or in the good graces of the White power structure try to elevate themselves by s***ting on Black people above everyone else, Asian Americans are also one of the groups considered to be model minorities as they often try to assimilate and don’t threaten or question the status quo to the extent that other oppressed groups do. It also helps that many White racist men fetishize Asian women as in their minds they are all traditional and submissive unlike ā€œtheirā€ White women who have betrayed them for equality and non White men.

    Yeah, racism is f***ing stupid.

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    wew boy I have a story for you to prove that wrong

    if only you knew how that "good" parenting leads to sheltered asian children acting out by breaking all those rules their parents bestowed them

    abuse isnt parenting cuz

    There are bad abusive Asian parents. But I’m talking about the results. There are white parents who just let their kids walk all over them and black parents who just hit or ignore their kids without actually teaching them right from wrong or setting a good example for them. Asian parents often have children who grow up to be well mannered and successful. That’s not the rule, and I know their are Asian school shooters and such, I’m talking like statistically and personal experience

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Answer: because Black people are at the bottom of the racial totem pole because we are the exact ā€œoppositeā€ of White and all other ethnic groups are between us and them on the racial spectrum. Those that have internalized said racism and aspire to be White and/or in the good graces of the White power structure try to elevate themselves by s***ting on Black people above everyone else, Asian Americans are also one of the groups considered to be model minorities as they often try to assimilate and don’t threaten or question the status quo to the extent that other oppressed groups do. It also helps that many White racist men fetishize Asian women as in their minds they are all traditional and submissive unlike ā€œtheirā€ White women who have betrayed them for equality and non White men.

    Yeah, racism is f***ing stupid.

    Well written

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    i am sasuke

    parenting is a lot more complex than simply having ur child be able to display an ability to do certain skills

    that isnt to say thats bad parenting

    but solely equating that to being a good parent is harmful. your child can play 3 instruments but if you don’t emotionally support them and teach them a healthy attachment style, help them feel safe, let them be happy, etc. etc. you are trying to raise a puppet rather than a child.

    I didn’t really mean in relation to that guys post, I meant more like how asian children grow up to usually have the lowest crime rates and better jobs, all while still caring about their family (which I guess you could argue stems from their more privileged upbringing than other minorities but still)

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    thread was acceptable until op threatened to post pics of someone just because he stated his opinion on the thread. Nice one op

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    There are bad abusive Asian parents. But I’m talking about the results. There are white parents who just let their kids walk all over them and black parents who just hit or ignore their kids without actually teaching them right from wrong or setting a good example for them. Asian parents often have children who grow up to be well mannered and successful. That’s not the rule, and I know their are Asian school shooters and such, I’m talking like statistically and personal experience

    I get what you saying but that comes at an extreme cost bro

    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Pan

    did you forget the tiger parents murder?

    a lot of asians are resentful towards their parents at the end of the day and when they're doing this parenting" they are instilling anti black rhetoric during it most of the time

  • frenchpress šŸ”ŗ
    Nov 28, 2019
    Hiro

    thread was acceptable until op threatened to post pics of someone just because he stated his opinion on the thread. Nice one op

    ? nah, there's still good discussion in this thread.

  • Nov 28, 2019
    Hiro

    thread was acceptable until op threatened to post pics of someone just because he stated his opinion on the thread. Nice one op

    Known weirdo who been stalking me on this forum mind ya business cause he already know what time it is when it comes to posting in my s***

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    I get what you saying but that comes at an extreme cost bro

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Pan

    did you forget the tiger parents murder?

    a lot of asians are resentful towards their parents at the end of the day and when they're doing this parenting" they are instilling anti black rhetoric during it most of the time

    Yeah that’s pretty messed up, but that’s like an extreme example. On id say Asian parents (and hispanic parents) perform better than white and black ones. But that doesn’t change the fact that POC solidarity is fiction

  • Nov 28, 2019
    Enpax

    Yeah that’s pretty messed up, but that’s like an extreme example. On id say Asian parents (and hispanic parents) perform better than white and black ones. But that doesn’t change the fact that POC solidarity is fiction

    In black households parents raise their kids to be afraid of white people and cops

    In hispanic households parents raise their kids to be wary of white people and cops... but that blacks are also bad too

    In asian households parents raise their kids to be model students so they can get good jobs amongst whites.. and never talk to blacks

    I've never ever everrr heard of black parents raising their kids to fear any other minority thats for sure at least not like how others raise theirs to fear US

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    This thread is a mess and is full of idiots generalizing the largest continent on this planet; Based on interactions with a small group of people. F*** outta here.

  • Nov 28, 2019
    Enpax

    Also ā€œchiefā€ do you know of me outside of ktt or something lol

    Lol nope

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    Hiro

    thread was acceptable until op threatened to post pics of someone just because he stated his opinion on the thread. Nice one op

    he's desperate for attention, i don't even know him his life must be in shambles, collecting random men's pictures on the internet

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    mazbeats

    This thread is a mess and is full of idiots generalizing the largest continent on this planet; Based on interactions with a small group of people. F*** outta here.

    Lot of good discussion in here you must have just skimmed and got your feelings hurt

  • lucid šŸ¹
    Nov 28, 2019

    yall still with this s***

  • Nov 28, 2019
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    OP is race obsessed

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