she not lying

Smh man you already know what the deal is and you coming with these points lol

Idk man I think it’s kinda equal it’s just that men don’t really care as much as women do,

But im just a man with an opinion so I appreciate you giving your viewpoint to expand my perspective

Well, we face criticism too. It just isn’t as dramatized as female ‘body-shaming’ because the expectation is for us to either get in shape or become confident in our skin.

I don’t get why she’s saying this anyway? Body shaming towards women is met with shunning and extreme disapproval, and everybody has something to say about somebodies body. So what difference does us allegedly not dealing with ‘body shaming’ make, when the entire internet comes to your defense in the first place…?

You are right that I am still growing and not perfect and I will gladly admit that

Was I insensitive to small p****ed men? Yes definitely. I just don’t think that’s a real problem we should be worried about as the general male population. It’s hard for me to have sympathy when ur getting to the stage of having s***with a woman in the first place ngl !

If u read the other thread then u know I said I’ve been annoyed with women recently. Do u know how easy it would be for me to jump on the women hate bandwagon and say “girls are awful they judge you for your p**** size, all women are the same”? Quite easy. Instead I’m being completely honest and my honest opinion is I don’t think that’s a big issue and I’m not pointing any fingers at women for that

Every example ITT of men being bodyshamed has been by other men lmao

This whole argument seems to come down to sensitivity and being unable to take criticism, especially for something that you have the power to change

Women get really offended when you call them fat where they’ll most likely get defensive and resort to calling you things like short, small d*** etc

But it seems really petty to me to point out something that you could change (which is also a net positive for your health) and then respond by criticizing somebody for something they cannot change.

When people call a man fat no one really gives a s*** because like above poster said we’re just expected to hit the gym and learn to love ourselves

It seems that a lot of women constantly need to be coddled with this “body positivity” s*** when all studies and sciences say being overweight is bad for you

It’s like a scorned fat kid who’s so offended yet too lazy to actually make any real change so they start with all these personal attacks and s*** lol

That’s the way it comes off to me

Yeah because we def don’t ever make fun of fat men. That’s somethings we never ever do right?

If you’re pudgy, love it!

This is such cap

F*** every single one of these celebrities

I mean all this s*** is on the internet. You think men are just going up to fat b****es and calling em fat? Girls will definitely go behind your back and clown your d*** size

She’s right in some ways

I think if a woman has a relatively strong opinion against dating fat niggas

That doesn’t necessarily mean that a fat niggas chances at bagging her are 0%, he just has to be able to spit incredible game, be like Jesus, or have money to make up for it.

Whereas, if a man has a relatively strong opinion against dating fat b****es

That fat girls chances at being able to bag that man are probably 0% no matter what. But that’s because there has never been a fat woman with swag fr

Lmao they mad af itt

Touché

Think a lotta “ugly” niggas in reality are just filled with personalities that are automatic b**** repellent.

Cause that Elliot dude that wrote that manifesto was a pretty mf in the face if we talking “conventional attractiveness”

But men are truly just the worst when it comes to self reflection so most don’t get that far before going loser. (E.g. anime nerds in high school that ignore the fact alotta them niggas had BO up the ass and elitist personalities that scared the hoes. In adulthood, I’ve only ever dealt with a “party that smelled bad” when it was around anime and I love anime but some stereotypes be lowkey true)

(Str8) Men care more about other men’s body fat, height, d*** size, etc than women do real f***ing talk.

She's spot on. It's a bit better nowadays but it was horrible for women 10-20 years ago

Lotta ppl itt really forget that being “ thick “ just became nationwide acceptable like 25 years ago

big white melons 🤍

To keep it real, it don't matter what size you are, you still have to do all those things to have the girl you specifically want, even if they're not attracted to you.

For the girls that are attracted to you, they'll make things a way easier than it needs to be, because she'll put in the effort to get to know you. That's what happened when I met my ex years ago online before we had a relationship.

How I see it is that there's 3 types of girls.

1. Girls that are okay or below, which you're not into

2. Girls that are conventionally attractive girls that are 8-10s just by society standard.

3. Girls that are dimes like girls you're 1000000% attracted to.

The problem with my relationship with my ex is that she mostly "the number 2" type of girl, where if you look at her, she was very attractive by others and possibly society standards, but not what I was attracted to.

That's how things went toxic

Sadly, I haven't met much girls that I felt a huge attraction to that gave me the same amount of love and attention my ex gave me, but looking back, I should've handle things better with that relationship.

Now, I'm just learning to move on and grow. They'll be women that'll find you interesting along the way, but if you find that one girl super attractive, go for it.

That's all I got to say.