alright, well, men are more sexual than women or at least society has been shaped as such that it enables them to sexualize & degrade women across the board. often times these aspects are linked. what this means is that men are so h**** & encouraged to express that (see the g&g section which definitely has one stronger G than the other), that along basically any axis, men will be horndogs for via the fetish. Fetishization implies an almost pathological sexual attraction, which, when we think about psychology, ensures that there's a bit, at least, of a quandary around this person's fixation, which usually comes with shame. This created the cleave of I'd f*** her vs. I'd love her

you probably won't find the opposite on lipstick alley because women have been socialized around sexuality in different ways where it's more about the man as a status symbol than physical looks.

Are those ed sheerans actual tattoos 💩🚮

Site full of dumbasses man s*** fell off hard

that just means men are chosen DESPITE their bodies lmao, that doesn't prove anything

why are you dying on this hill

of course there are people that make fun of mens looks. But dont fool yourself into thinking that ed sheerans looks were similarly integral to his career than to SZA, Rosalia etc.

When label execs assess your marketability they dont care how the f*** men look. But for the woman its looks first than talent. Ask anyone in the industry.

good thread

census.gov/library/stories/2023/09/unmarried-women-men.html#:~:text=Ratios%20of%20Unmarried%20Men%20to%20Women%20by%20Age,)%20than%20women%20(28.2).

Now you’re just lying about the numbers.

Also men have a lower life expectancy but of course you don’t care about what is actually true.

He cherry picked that s*** too

Adele and Lizzo aren’t huge stars?

Why you leave out bad bunny and harry styles tho lmao

Huge stars

so men are more free/encouraged to express their sexuality -> they make g&g threads about lizzo and bebe reha. sure but that attraction isnt manufactured, there are actually guys who want to f*** lizzo lol

even in an ideal state of nature where women could express whatever they want sexually and not be criticized for it, no girl is trying to f*** fat joe b/c women just tend to have a higher threshold for sexual attractiveness IMO

nothing wrong with that but its also why I dont think billies comments rly make sense. like yeah fat male celebs receive less criticism but thats because fat joe was never even in the running for "desirable" in the public eye to begin with

There is an entire body positivity movement that exists pretty much solely for woman. How many body positivity posts have you seen with a picture of a fat guy?

I love opinions from sheltered people !

nah fat dudes definitely get preferential treatment over skinny mfs

Need ellie to chime in

privileged take

she wouldn’t be saying this stuff if she wasn’t objectively hot or a woman

you’ll never catch her brother Finneas jumping out the window to say some goofy s*** like this bc it’s not rooted in reality

she just lives in a bubble

A fat man will get more criticism irl and a fat woman will get more criticism online

Tbf there's a lot of dad bod appreciation but there's a limit i.e. chubby but not obese

you said it yourself, you might not like the answer, but ed sheeran’s looks aren’t integral because he doesn’t show off his body like sza or rosalia do — that doesn’t mean people won’t say ed sheeran is ugly with zero repercussions. there are double standards in play for both women and men, I agree, if you call sza fat you’ll def get more pushback despite it being more common

she's wrong, but it's okay

One day we gonna have an honest conversation about women