It’s all in the same pot

They shouldn’t be speaking on black issues period. We as a people don’t know how to keep s*** “in the house”

But yalls resistance to this concept is a perfect example of why this isn’t reality and things are the way they are lol

All I'm getting from some niggas itt is that it is wrong for non-Black people to stand up for Black people...and that it is wrong to tell people to stop sagging their pants.

These the hills y'all dying on today b.

There's hella stigmas and unrealistic expectations of black women that even black men reinforce

How both men and women use each other to fulfill their inner needs (which is an inside responsibility). And when one or both are disappointed when those needs aren't met, those traumatic experiences can turn into harmful coping mechanisms such becoming anti-male/anti-female/anti-black men/anti-black women.

I think its more to show preference than actual racism in that way tho. If you say it like 'thats my type'

But if you say cause they crazy or some other weird s*** than thats def racism tho

At its peak…nigga it just looked cool? Subjective of course however the larger issue is the undertones behind “pull your pants up” from an older white man. Nigga f*** you you don’t control s*** 😂

I don’t sag now as a grown man tho

Men of all races do this, that c***bitch jus wanted to s*** on niggas

She said she only seen black men do it in her experience foh that’s cap, so she tellin me she never seen no c***fetishize a black woman?

I feel like she shoulda called out everyone equally for their treatment of black women and then made a special point about how black women face hate in their own community

Like not to single black men out but to make a point about the s***

Yeah I agree with that part

I do wish it was different for them bc some really don’t do anything for backlash

See I don't even think about old white men telling me to pick my pants up cause the only people who have ever told me to pick my pants up and were against sagging pants were...Black men and women

😂😂😂 fam this s*** is the twilight zone

Niggas in here being okay with “Pull Your Pants Up You Thug” explains the takes ITT so much

I’d say “so I’m anti black for dating a white girl? Cmon that’s not even true when every girl before that was black. Every other race can venture out but I can’t?”

That was met with: bw are the last option and you need to be uplifting us by choosing us over any other race.

I get both sides

I dont think thats what hes saying

I had it happen a couple times most notably in high school and I straight up asked bra “why are you looking at my ass”

Like not at all b lmao

So they can see my polo t shirt n polo draws

But I don’t sag anymore n I couldn’t care less

It’s always been old black dudes sayin “pick up your pants”
Always

I think the main problem is that niggas that really don’t like bw fr aren’t going to change their ways by no means. They around white people all the time. They see nothing wrong with what they say because of their skewed perception

Which is why their opinions and preferences should be ignored. No point of wasting breathe or energy on those that aren’t gonna change

Yeah cause if u sag hard I make assumptions too lol why y’all think only white folk do that s*** imma judge u too

I get where both of u r coming from. Kuro i know the older people you’re talking about or at least that type. A lot of them in my life would say to you in this post “what reason do you black men have for saying nigga? What reason does anybody have for saying it?” Necessity in dress and style is kinda reductive when people do a lot of s*** to fit in or look cool to themselves or others. It’s just clothes

I think there’s a level of respectability politics involved in certain tolerated decorum and appearance that we’re discussing and everyone’s threshold is gonna be different.

Young people gonna do a lot of stuff that looks crazy in hindsight later on

Feel the same way bout racist ppl

Let them be idc to change them at all

They’re gonna die on that hill I don’t want to be dragged to it

It’s a f*** you & move on

based on what's in the op this perfomative as hell. we already know there's coons out here that talk bad on black women, why do we need this white girl to chime in?

unless she shows some proof i'm not gonna just buy that she's personally experienced a black dude speaking down on black women in front of her, for all we know she's referencing a twitter interaction or making s*** up.

these gender debates annoying as is, yall allowing white people into them will make it a lot worse