iHype

5y

If you aren't attracted to your own color of people there's likely some self-hate in there.

It is also obvious because these people tend to exhibit it so much and don't even hide it, because they don't realize.

• People who are obsessed with mixed babies
• People who constantly make jokes about dark-skinned people (even despite many being dark skinned themselves)
• People who specifically brag about dating a white person as if it makes them a higher class
• Black men who get on black women for being manly, unattractive, etc constantly.
• People who also have only white friends lmao.

9/10 black people who only date exclusively whites usually meet one of these. It just reflects how they think less of black people overall.

And I'm not referring to those people open to dating all people (including other black people) but someone who specifically goes after white women/men.

Kodak Black for example literally said he thinks all dark-skinned women are ugly... despite being dark-skinned, his momma being dark-skin, etc. How tf is that not self-hate. It's definitely probably from him getting bullied for being dark during his childhood and then letting it turn to self-hate. (Even tho that has more to do with darkskin/lightskin colorism rather than hating his own race)There's actually a lot of black guys I realized are like him too.

Lots of black men got self-image issues, it's actually sad.

iHype

5y

If you aren't attracted to your own color of people there's likely some self-hate in there.

It is also obvious because these people tend to exhibit it so much and don't even hide it, because they don't realize.

• People who are obsessed with mixed babies
• People who constantly make jokes about dark-skinned people (even despite many being dark skinned themselves)
• People who specifically brag about dating a white person as if it makes them a higher class
• Black men who get on black women for being manly, unattractive, etc constantly.
• People who also have only white friends lmao.

9/10 black people who only date exclusively whites usually meet one of these. It just reflects how they think less of black people overall.

And I'm not referring to those people open to dating all people (including other black people) but someone who specifically goes after white women/men.

Kodak Black for example literally said he thinks all dark-skinned women are ugly... despite being dark-skinned, his momma being dark-skin, etc. How tf is that not self-hate. It's definitely probably from him getting bullied for being dark during his childhood and then letting it turn to self-hate. (Even tho that has more to do with darkskin/lightskin colorism rather than hating his own race)There's actually a lot of black guys I realized are like him too.

Lots of black men got self-image issues, it's actually sad.

RX Nigerian Pastor

5y

What do y’all think of this movie scene? It is talking about how they keep black peoples divided. I find it interesting @Nightmares

RX Nigerian Pastor

5y

What do y’all think of this movie scene? It is talking about how they keep black peoples divided. I find it interesting @Nightmares

iHype

5y

If you aren't attracted to your own color of people there's likely some self-hate in there.

It is also obvious because these people tend to exhibit it so much and don't even hide it, because they don't realize.

• People who are obsessed with mixed babies
• People who constantly make jokes about dark-skinned people (even despite many being dark skinned themselves)
• People who specifically brag about dating a white person as if it makes them a higher class
• Black men who get on black women for being manly, unattractive, etc constantly.
• People who also have only white friends lmao.

9/10 black people who only date exclusively whites usually meet one of these. It just reflects how they think less of black people overall.

And I'm not referring to those people open to dating all people (including other black people) but someone who specifically goes after white women/men.

Kodak Black for example literally said he thinks all dark-skinned women are ugly... despite being dark-skinned, his momma being dark-skin, etc. How tf is that not self-hate. It's definitely probably from him getting bullied for being dark during his childhood and then letting it turn to self-hate. (Even tho that has more to do with darkskin/lightskin colorism rather than hating his own race)There's actually a lot of black guys I realized are like him too.

Lots of black men got self-image issues, it's actually sad.

Courtside

5y

So y’all would rather a nigga force himself into a relationship with someone just cause they both black.

Courtside

5y

So y’all would rather a nigga force himself into a relationship with someone just cause they both black.

iHype

5y

If you aren't attracted to your own color of people there's likely some self-hate in there.

It is also obvious because these people tend to exhibit it so much and don't even hide it, because they don't realize.

• People who are obsessed with mixed babies
• People who constantly make jokes about dark-skinned people (even despite many being dark skinned themselves)
• People who specifically brag about dating a white person as if it makes them a higher class
• Black men who get on black women for being manly, unattractive, etc constantly.
• People who also have only white friends lmao.

9/10 black people who only date exclusively whites usually meet one of these. It just reflects how they think less of black people overall.

And I'm not referring to those people open to dating all people (including other black people) but someone who specifically goes after white women/men.

Kodak Black for example literally said he thinks all dark-skinned women are ugly... despite being dark-skinned, his momma being dark-skin, etc. How tf is that not self-hate. It's definitely probably from him getting bullied for being dark during his childhood and then letting it turn to self-hate. (Even tho that has more to do with darkskin/lightskin colorism rather than hating his own race)There's actually a lot of black guys I realized are like him too.

Lots of black men got self-image issues, it's actually sad.

iHype

5y

People would rather someone not hate their own race If you read the post I even said it doesn't apply to people who are open to dating all races, including other black people.

However the ones who go around exclusively refusing to date black girls def got some self-hate in there, and they usually meet some of the criteria mentioned.

Please explain why a dark-skin person thinking dark-skinned women are ugly, or a black person thinking all black people in general are unattractive is 'normal' and has nothing to do with programmed self-hate

yungcartier

5y

Only in the our community, where a preference is considered a political statement.

I see what ur saying and their are some black men that do this but not every black man who likes a certain race hates their own.

yungcartier

5y

Only in the our community, where a preference is considered a political statement.

I see what ur saying and their are some black men that do this but not every black man who likes a certain race hates their own.

RX Nigerian Pastor

5y

But what’s the reason for not being attracted to black women in the first place? How can a nigga hate a while group of black women and refuse to be in a relationship with them that’s self hated right there

I don’t have a problem with niggas dating interracial, hell the only girlfriend I’ve ever had was white but when it comes at the expense of dogging black women then it’s a problem.

There’s a difference between dating someone who’s not black but still being attracted to black women and refusing to date black because you despite your own skin.

Courtside

5y

https://www.complex.com/music/2017/06/kodak-black-doesnt-like-dark-skinned-women-too-gutter

Kodak Black said that “if he prefers skinny women more than a chubbier or heavyset woman, if he can say that and nobody can get mad him, I just said I don’t like women with my complexion."

He continued: “I love African American women, but I just don’t like my skin complexion. We too gutter, light-skinned women more sensitive.” (Excerpt from a Complex article)

Sounds like it has something to do with his upbringing bro. I think he’s just ignorant in this sense, opposite of being a coon. Atleast in Dr. Umar’s definition

I don’t see how you can call it self-hate..this nigga pretty fond of himself

iHype

5y

Wtf how did you read that and NOT see self-hate

Media has always portrayed dark-skinned black women as manly, angry/aggressive, loud/ratchet, unpretty, stereotypical ghetto black girl. Even black media a lot of times plays into that colorism.

He let himself get brainwashed. How you gonna say ALL dark-skinned women are less sensitive/gutter compared to light-skin women? Like wtf. He literally said he thinks dark-skinned blacks are less desirable than light-skinned blacks.

Courtside

5y

I just don’t see how you don’t find another black man attractive

There’s so many handsome beautiful black men...

You must hate yourself...

Do you see the logic? It’s just that nigga preference bro. Not our business tbh but I wouldn’t be so quick to call it self hate. His son is as black as him as well as all his homies.

iHype

5y

Wtf how did you read that and NOT see self-hate

Media has always portrayed dark-skinned black women as manly, angry/aggressive, loud/ratchet, unpretty, stereotypical ghetto black girl. Even black media a lot of times plays into that colorism.

He let himself get brainwashed. How you gonna say ALL dark-skinned women are less sensitive/gutter compared to light-skin women? Like wtf. He literally said he thinks dark-skinned blacks are less desirable than light-skinned blacks.

RX Nigerian Pastor

5y

This nigga here

You got it my g

Courtside

5y

My nigga...please step outside of your cave. You do realize this nigga is literally a project baby? You think this nigga was getting “brainwashed” by the media growing up?

He probably seen the s*** first hand lol and I’ve seen it too. Not all our women are like that but a lot are and they’re not all innocent lol.

iHype

5y

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Yes I think media does play into it.

I've lived in some of the worst parts of my city as a kid at some point. If you truly lived in a gutter area you know it's not lightskin/darkskin acting a specific way... it's hoodass light-skin girls and also hoodass dark-skin girls in those areas. Nearly everyone is hood as s*** lmao.

You don't go into the projects and only see light-skinned people acting desirable and dark-skinned people acting gutter LMAO.

Courtside

5y

You can’t say that though lmao most likely this nigga had some traumatizing s*** happen and caused his bias get off my nigga yak mane