Not saying I agree but subconsciously some dark skinned females end up playing that stereotypical role because that's how They were taught

Good point bro I agree

How y’all feel about when other races try to “act black” to impress us

Niggas tryna ask me to hit up the plug with some weird ass slang we don’t actually use

Bro put up urban dictionary and just ask for some weed

sensational

i hate that s*** to be completely honest. Like if it doesn't completely flow naturally from your mouth, its cringe

the biggest contender is when white kids saying "no cap" in the whitest tryhard way possible

OP pro black but was supporting Osiris who says the n word with da hard r

STORY: growing up... the black kids would gawk over them lightskinned/white/ hispanic/mixed girls & if those light black girls had green/blue eyes they'd go straight up ape mode & lose it.
it was usually the dark skinned dudes that went so hard for them too. They'd talk down on darker girls but they themselves had hair unkempt, ashy, ghetto, the whole 9. it was pitiful

is anyone else fasting for ramadan

Still very much like that all over the place unfortunately

How y’all fast?

sunrise to sunset
no water no food

About this dating preferences s***....

100% of the time your preferences are based on outside influence, whether you like it or not.

From your upbringing (who raised you) to what you see and digest from media, to books, etc,.

It's not some coincidence when black people exclusively date outside of their race or exclusively date white people. There is a --usually NEGATIVE-- reason for that lmao so saying it's "preference" like there's not actual reason for it is some bullshit.

If you prefer to date everything except black people then you have self hate. It actually is cut and dry like that. Now, dating someone outside your race =/= self hate, it's about whether you are open to your own people or not. If you're not you're a self hater. Sorry.

We really gotta look deep into this and reevaluate ourselves. I have a preference for brown and dark skin men (even though I've talked to liteskin dudes) because I was raised by brown & dark skin men that have been positive influences on my life so that left an impression on me and my preferences. That's how it works. I don't think liteskin dudes are ugly or or that they are lesser to dark skin men but I like darker skin tones. I have somewhat started to unpack this so I can try and remove subconscious biases.

On the opposite end though I have zero desire to date a white man and I'm almost equally apprehensive about dating men outside my race period.

Finally a thread for my real niggas

welcome home brother

Thank you. I seen my people out here talking about melanin, dating black women and self hate you know i had to join in

if I gave up weed for the fast would that count?

What city everybody from? Rep yo s***!

yeah smoking isn't aloud

Bet I’m giving up weed for Ramadan

proud

Well, they would be making a false assumption off what you described.

Personally, I would only suspect someone of being a self hater (from the outside) if I've seen them date multiple people and none of them black.

You can see the preference after multiple partners lol. I mean, in the end if you're not actually putting that self hate out in terms of attacking black women/men then it's not destructive just an internal issue.

I think most of the NBA/NFL are self hater though. Their access to women is greater than the average dude and they at something like 90%+ have a nonblack spouse.

greetings fellow black people

The last part is where I see holes in you guises argument lol now if we talking about regular niggas, yea I could see “self hate”... but why tf would these rich ass niggas have self hate

I think it’s just more of a status thing lol getting a foreign or white woman is seen as a status symbol to some

Or maybe as you go up in status you see more white women, or it’s harder to trust black women cause some gold digger and try to take your money