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  • Dec 22, 2019
    Cyan

    Nah looks are only 50%. The other 50% comes from a good bio and pictures.

    nah trust me bro i've been at it for years so i've tried every possible bio/pic combination and the conclusion is i'm ugly

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    Bro you dead ass good looking

    If you had more self confidence you could pull some baddies for sure

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    OUT OF ORDER

    Bro you dead ass good looking

    If you had more self confidence you could pull some baddies for sure

    lmao i wish that was true

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    lmao i wish that was true

    What are your hobbies

  • Dec 22, 2019
    OUT OF ORDER

    What are your hobbies

    idk mostly film/art s*** and fighting games

  • Dec 22, 2019

    pics

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    normal looking guy

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    the end

    normal looking guy

    i'm way below average tbh

    like i walk into a room and i'm usually the worst looking one there

  • Dec 22, 2019

    Op a normal looking dude but your confidence is so low that it probably shows and that's why you're having trouble getting girls.

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    OP please see a therapist if you can. You look handsome but if you truly have body image issues like this affecting your day to day life you may need help.

    btw you probably look better than the average dude on r/kappa, dustlloop or SRK

    Work on what you can physically if need be, body and hair. You can't change your face or proportions just work with it. If you got female friends ask for opinions on haircuts that might suit you. Though don't trick yourself into dressing/looking good for anyone but yourself.

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    i can't tell if this is a serious post or not but trust me we've probably lived the exact same experience

    Why does noone ever take me serious? Is my situation that absurd?

  • Dec 22, 2019
    fallingpond

    Why does noone ever take me serious? Is my situation that absurd?

    Nah your situation isnt that absurd your comment just came off kinda meme-y esp with the Asian stuff which theres nothing wrong with man. Not that it means anything but I feel like asian guys are almost always attractive tbh

    I've legit never had any women interested in me either so I know how you feel

  • PIMP 💿
    Dec 22, 2019
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    You look like that dude that said his brother Josh blew himself up with his two kids

  • PIMP 💿
    Dec 22, 2019

    Also chill OP, like they said, see someone it will all get figured out, there's always that finds someone attractive, just know that

    plus you ain't ugly b

  • Dec 22, 2019
    DriveSlow

    i've considered this tbh but i am a broke boi currently

    dont listen to him plastic surgery wont make you jappy
    learn to love yourself bro

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    fallingpond

    F***ing hell I hate when attractive people pretend they are ugly. Meanwhile here I am with a disgusting flat featureless long face from mouth breathing, covered in acne scars that make my whole face red and cratered. To top it off I am Asian. I look like a freak who will never experience love. I haven't talked to a woman since I was a kid and haven't had a one on one conversation in months.

    Man how old are you? I had the same issues and was on accutane for a few years which scarred the f*** out of my face. It takes a few years for the skin to recover and it will never be 100% but you learn to live. Not gonna lie I had the same exact thoughts you mentioned in your post but it's a toxic mentality. Me posting all this s*** probably won't change your outlook right now but just know stuff only gets better when you work on it.

    Please never use the asian excuse too (i'm asian) and have some confidence in yourself, I won't get all self love preachy about it but just because the standard of beauty is rooted in another society doesn't mean you're ugly or not attractive.

    Yes the reality is we're low on the dating pole but who gives a s***, people have preferences. I got an egg head with flat features as well and don't exactly have low bodyfat in the face but it's seriously whatever at the end of the day.

    I hate seeing asians (or any ethnicity) have confidence issues based on their race/ethnicity, very unfortunate but seems like all diaspora go through it one way or another at some point.

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    lol i wish i could but i'm legit too ugly for even a tinder match

    With that attitude yes you are

  • Dec 22, 2019
    DriveSlow

    i'm way below average tbh

    like i walk into a room and i'm usually the worst looking one there

    Bruh

  • Ezio 🎰
    Dec 22, 2019
    DriveSlow

    So pretty much i'm super ugly, like majorly f***ed up. I look like a f***ing troll. I wish i was exaggerating but its seriously f***ed me up. I have maybe 5 pics of myself over the past few years, looking at myself in the mirror too long f***s up my day/week, and I avoid going out in public bc i feel like i'm too ugly to deserve the outside like regular people or i feel like people are just staring and judging me for leaving the house looking so disgusting.

    I've posted pics on reddit and stuff, and asked my friends and everyone says i'm not ugly but I legit feel like everyone's lying to me. Like when i see myself i barely even see a human being anymore so other people have to feel like that too right? idk if anyone else here can relate or has advice

    swear to god you look good, you're not dicaprio but you're a little above average. I wouldn't lie to you about this.

  • Dec 22, 2019

    I was expecting OP to look ugly asf. You could easily pull a baddie.

    I’m a solid 5 but my personality makes me a 8/9. I pull girls who are waaay better looking than me. You can easily, you just need to get help.

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    treeman

    With that attitude yes you are

    Attitude doesn't matter when it comes to that sadly

  • Dec 22, 2019
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    DriveSlow

    Attitude doesn't matter when it comes to that sadly

    Yes it does

  • Dec 22, 2019
    DriveSlow

    https://imgur.com/a/9EV3avV

    UGLY ASS MOTHERFUCKER OMFG YOU MADE ME VOMIT IN MY BED

    I feel better now i felt so bloated

  • Dec 22, 2019

    Severe body dysmorphia

    You look normal

    Unless you're actually black and white

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