Ghoma

3w

Unfortunately for number of people a platonic relationship with the opposite s***doesn’t work

One of the parties eventually ends up catching feelings, 9 out of 10 times being the guy

Bushmanate

3w

Trust me lol

Brother I was in a 2 year relationship both of us were insecure by the end of it.

I’m not wishing it doesn’t pan out for you but trust me one of you will end up worse off

panocha princess

2w

we already had an interaction about this bruh why are u quoting me again 💀

TTU

3w

Could never cower to a loser

Pusha P

2w

Why you start this senseless beef with your fellow woman?

I seen people hug it out over far worse on here.

TTU

3w

I see why you have no friends

Chilla

3w

There are many women I get along with in my life. I know them through work, through school, through church or some other context. However, whenever we engage it's always within a specific context. We don't schedule a time and place to hang out alone. Alone time outside of the aforementioned contexts is something I reserve for women who have a romantic interest in me/that I have a romantic interest in.

If I know from the start that a woman only wants to have me as her platonic male friend that she can hang out with alone then I will respectfully have to decline. We can get along and have fun at school or work or whichever context it is, but I will not invest time, money or energy into her on my free time if the end goal is just a friendship that I can already get from the friends and family I already have.

I may think she's cool and we may have great fun at work or school but I also have to consider what kind of signal I be sending when I'm out with her, a girl that I am not romantically involved with - every other person who sees me with her is going to assume that we are dating - in other words I'd be blocking myself from the women who actually want me in a romantic way.

Also, I do not want to have a roster of female friends that I hang out with alone to interfere with the woman I am actually going to be with and eventually marry.

Elric

2w

I've been at it for almost 9 years and feel like were better than ever

Chilla

3w

There are many women I get along with in my life. I know them through work, through school, through church or some other context. However, whenever we engage it's always within a specific context. We don't schedule a time and place to hang out alone. Alone time outside of the aforementioned contexts is something I reserve for women who have a romantic interest in me/that I have a romantic interest in.

If I know from the start that a woman only wants to have me as her platonic male friend that she can hang out with alone then I will respectfully have to decline. We can get along and have fun at school or work or whichever context it is, but I will not invest time, money or energy into her on my free time if the end goal is just a friendship that I can already get from the friends and family I already have.

I may think she's cool and we may have great fun at work or school but I also have to consider what kind of signal I be sending when I'm out with her, a girl that I am not romantically involved with - every other person who sees me with her is going to assume that we are dating - in other words I'd be blocking myself from the women who actually want me in a romantic way.

Also, I do not want to have a roster of female friends that I hang out with alone to interfere with the woman I am actually going to be with and eventually marry.

Bushmanate

2w

Idk how but I’m happy for you bro

Elric

2w

Your logic that women who might potentially be interested will see you with a female friend and not make themselves might occasionally be correct, but probably only by girls that are already projecting their own tendencies. Well adjusted women will see a dude that other women are comfortable around, and one that doesn't just consider the opposite s***as potential bangs.

Youre not forming friendships with men for reasons any different than you would be with women so what's between their legs shouldn't matter.

Smoofer

2w

Yea don’t think I’d wanna be with someone who is jealous of pre existing relationships I have lmao

Twicetagram

2w

i have a female friend that likes me, i treat her like s*** but she still likes me