If you can’t have women friends without trying to get on that with them, that’s a personal problem. I got hella women friends I’ll never get on that with because their vibe is amazing and I would hate to complicate things. Y’all gotta learn how to friend zone women and stop trying to stick your d*** in everything.
oh yeah that quote definitely makes the sentiments in this thread make sense.
otherwise, I'd open the discussion that genitals is just genitals and seeing your friend naked aint that big a deal in a normal society that ain't sexually repressed to hell (aka America)
So you were in a relationship, you’d let your shorty be posted up naked in front of a straight male friend? That’s a pretty hot take
some of the best friends i've ever had in my life are women, yall need to grow up or stop sleeping
This is not true at all lol. There are some BADDDD platonic female friends I have that if they came at my door literally begging me to hit, I'd laugh it off.
I know you too well and too much and from the jump seen you like a sister I never had. And I might be born in the south but I aint with the incest wave
Exceptions to everything. I have female friends that look good but I wouldn’t f*** either because I know how messy they get.
So you were in a relationship, you’d let your shorty be posted up naked in front of a straight male friend? That’s a pretty hot take
yall love posting just the OD wild scenarios without any context.
if we was in a society that didn't portray men as animals that can't control ourselves just at the bare sight of titties and a vagina, sure.
I went to a PWI, I seen mad titties and vaginas and besides a look or two, never felt like I had this uncontrollable urge to f*** lol.
It's also pretty funny and naive 'cause they're acting as if women don't have male friends that they definitely would f***
Facts.
If your girl got a male friend and she tells you he’s just a friend, best believe that male friend would f*** if given the chance
Also it’s not being insecure, it’s just being human.
If you're incapable of being around any woman without sexualizing them in any regard, you need to get bonk'd
In all honest I’ve probably at the very least given a single thought to the idea of hooking up with or dating most female friends I’ve had
Facts.
If your girl got a male friend and she tells you he’s just a friend, best believe that male friend would f*** if given the chance
Also it’s not being insecure, it’s just being human.
Nah, it's being insecure and untrustworthy and expecting just the worse out of everyone.
I'd hate to go through life with that type of outlook.
ti be scarin the hoes
Don’t play anything other than Whatever You Like and it should be straight 🙏🏽
Facts.
If your girl got a male friend and she tells you he’s just a friend, best believe that male friend would f*** if given the chance
Also it’s not being insecure, it’s just being human.
I mean if your girl cheat, she wasn’t your girl to begin with 🤷🏽♂️
Exceptions to everything. I have female friends that look good but I wouldn’t f*** either because I know how messy they get.
maybe i’m just toxic as f*** but i don’t mind the mess lmao
when i was single and one of my friends that were women wanted a rebound or just wanted to get down i was definitely that guy
Nah, it's being insecure and untrustworthy and expecting just the worse out of everyone.
I'd hate to go through life with that type of outlook.
Definitely not expecting the worse of anybody it’s just reality. But we can agree to disagree fam.
If anything I honestly think I’m pretty secure with myself and my relationship. I’ve brought my girl to clubs and let her go out on her own with her friends to clubs and bars and s*** and I know some men who are mad insecure about letting their girl go out, I even tell her to try and finesse drinks for us sometimes when we’re out and about for fun.
I mean if your girl cheat, she wasn’t your girl to begin with 🤷🏽♂️
This, and if she cheats on your with her male friend you’d never find out anyways especially if they were friends before the relationship
I feel like this might not add anything that hasn't already been said, but here's my experience.
I consider the women friends I made in college some of my best friends, and they're who I go to for advice 95% of the time, especially relationship advice. I just went to visit Philly and stayed with one of them; she's in a relationship and I've never had any feelings towards her. She's attractive but I would never even consider doing anything with her. We spent the weekend together, she showed me around the city, and it was an amazing time. Perfect example of a non-complicated platonic friendship.
That said, the person who I currently consider perhaps my best friend is a girl who I used to have serious unrequited feelings for, but she was in an LDR when we met and we developed our friendship and I just never had a chance to try and turn it into anything more than that. Eventually I told her, just to get the feelings off my chest (I had no expectations), and she was totally fine with it and it didn't change our relationship at all. Since then, I've been fine and don't feel any type of way about it other than valuing her as my best friend. Getting those feelings off my chest was very helpful.
I say all that to say that while platonic relationships don't have to be complicated, they def can be, but if you can't figure the complicated s*** out in a mature way, then you don't deserve the benefits of having women friends.
Not saying every platonic relationship can be sexual but friendship & attraction can co-exist w/out s***IMO
maybe i’m just toxic as f*** but i don’t mind the mess lmao
when i was single and one of my friends that were women wanted a rebound or just wanted to get down i was definitely that guy
I’ve been there but you gotta be better than that King
You can but there's obviously the risk of catching feelings, so you really just have to be prepared to keep your distance if there's no chance of a relationship because unrequited love hurts mane
I mean if your girl cheat, she wasn’t your girl to begin with 🤷🏽♂️
Y’all kill me with this
I feel like this might not add anything that hasn't already been said, but here's my experience.
I consider the women friends I made in college some of my best friends, and they're who I go to for advice 95% of the time, especially relationship advice. I just went to visit Philly and stayed with one of them; she's in a relationship and I've never had any feelings towards her. She's attractive but I would never even consider doing anything with her. We spent the weekend together, she showed me around the city, and it was an amazing time. Perfect example of a non-complicated platonic friendship.
That said, the person who I currently consider perhaps my best friend is a girl who I used to have serious unrequited feelings for, but she was in an LDR when we met and we developed our friendship and I just never had a chance to try and turn it into anything more than that. Eventually I told her, just to get the feelings off my chest (I had no expectations), and she was totally fine with it and it didn't change our relationship at all. Since then, I've been fine and don't feel any type of way about it other than valuing her as my best friend. Getting those feelings off my chest was very helpful.
I say all that to say that while platonic relationships don't have to be complicated, they def can be, but if you can't figure the complicated s*** out in a mature way, then you don't deserve the benefits of having women friends.
I've been in this situation multiple times and when a mutual agreement or communication occurs like your example, the friendship can still be salvaged.