im 30 and im not married. will be within a year or so though. if i ever propose
why aren't you proposing?
I can't even get married anytime soon tbh. Relationships cost a lot of money and I wouldn't be able to stack properly. I guess when I switch jobs towards the end of the year, it'll be different.
let’s ppl know you’re not a h****
Fellas is it gay to not get married?…
Is this why 50% of marriages end in divorce? Cause people like you rush the process just to be accepted by society?
why aren't you proposing?
i like to be super low key and hate attention so the idea of getting married stresses me out
not a good excuse but i’m trynna work through it lol
i like to be super low key and hate attention so the idea of getting married stresses me out
not a good excuse but i’m trynna work through it lol
holy s*** you might be my twin
i'm the exact same way and cause of my terrible social anxiety i been pushing wedding talk back and back
Is this why 50% of marriages end in divorce? Cause people like you rush the process just to be accepted by society?
Yeah, divorce rates are dropping because people are waiting longer.
Getting married young was one of the stupidest things I've ever done. Good woman, bad timing. Lot of years wasted on immaturity and wondering what I missed out on. Don't get married until you're burned out on dating and f***ing around. Or just don't get married, idk.
Not sure about business, but I will say that marriage has lent me a certain air of prestige and stability in my friend group. I have access to a lot of women I wouldn't otherwise because I'm married and "safe." Some have tried to hook up though specifically because they get off on sleeping with married men. Society does treat you differently based on your marriage status for sure.
Anyway, don't get married for business, prestige, certainly not other women, nothing like that. If it's not because whoever it is makes you appreciably better and happier, don't bother. Enjoy your freedom and make the most of it.
you niggas making excuses for why you ain’t no where in life yet. Trust it’s not because you’re not married
i like to be super low key and hate attention so the idea of getting married stresses me out
not a good excuse but i’m trynna work through it lol
just go to a court house or do it at home with like close family
that’s how my dad married my step mom
Is this why 50% of marriages end in divorce? Cause people like you rush the process just to be accepted by society?
ding ding ding
Is this why 50% of marriages end in divorce? Cause people like you rush the process just to be accepted by society?
Damn..
only hindrance professionally it would be is you focusing on it too much. but if you’re content with not being married your content and so it doesn’t hinder anything.
Maybe I'm giving him too much credit but thought he was saying he had access to more women in his friend group (positive) cause he's married but some of them try and hook up with him (negative).
Idk why I'm interpreting other people's post lmao but otherwise that sounds like something from a movie Adam Sandler or Kevin James would be in
Did I say that was a plus? I said it as a factual statement that was observable elsewhere, with these same women pursuing other people I knew who happened to be in relationships. I'm not sure if it was a weird competitive thing or a fetish or something in between.
i like to be super low key and hate attention so the idea of getting married stresses me out
not a good excuse but i’m trynna work through it lol
I’m 100000000% the same way trust, as long as you’re having open communication with your girl then there’s no issue for now. But end of the day do it for her and y’all’s parents
Marriage and relationships suck because if she's not happy it's gonna effect you.
being single is amazing i swear
Don’t be a sucker