massively important, if not there's a high chance you end up in the same place with the same pain

as other's have said though, especially in relationships ending or situations regarding death, closure is not necessarily possible. The situation gets left open-ended and you, as another user said, need to figure out your own closure, without the other person being involved in the process.

I certainly have tbh

I have in minor cases

When I was younger I cared

I still care now, but I understand nobody owes anything

You may be owed an explanation, in the sense that it would be fair to have closure.

But life is unfair, and you have no other choice than to accept it.

acceptance and POSITIVE growth go hand in hand.

so if you want to grow, grow through acceptance.

exactly it’s just part of life man

anytime i think i have gotten closure somehow the situation gets messed up again and i need more closure lol.

this sort of situation does indeed make me think closure may not be possible at times either because the end result will always be toxicity

You make your own closure

I think that depends on maturity of both parties but yea I agree def sounds like a luxury

Not everything needs an explanation, and not all explanations will help you recover. Like the first post said noone owes you anything.

I remember a tiktok i saw in passing of a black woman who went, “closure is just an excuse to relive your bad experience a second time” and it connected with me.

If this is specifically about a break up you just gotta power through for a couple weeks or months then you just end up not caring anymore

I need closure in most situations, even if it's years laters.

I usually am able to make it myself though

You definitely gotta go through life not expecting closure, but if YOU personally can offer it to someone, it’s a kind gesture and show of respect to give it when you can/is appropriate.