How important is closure to u in your life situations? Do u need an understanding of wat happened or can u just eat a L and keep it pushing?

you’re not owed an explanation for anything anyone does. that’s what i learned and it made me ok with not receiving closure

This was a real nigga answer I commend u

Def helps but sometimes I get closure and still feel unresolved

this, however closure does help ease the mind.

Damm, u think that’s a U problem? Or the party u dealin wit

Has anyone actually had a conversation with someone and said "Damn I got some really good closure from that conversation. I can finally move on."

S*** doesn't really seem realistic

It helps clear up any confusion you had about where things went wrong

Not everything comes with closure.
Unexpected death doesn't come with closure, taking a L on SNKRS app doesn't come with closure.

What you have to do is build your own closure through
A C C E P T A N C E.

Another real nikka post

Well said

nigga i be traumatized but thank

I hear u, same here but I may have acceptance issues ima def look into that

U said sum real s***, glad u workin thru watever u goin thru

Both tbh lol the situation I’m thinking of is rly f***ed

I can take the L and keep it moving but if you somebody I trust and you slight me on some shady s*** you should expect me to grill you on why you did it.

Facts!!!

Y’all niggas speakin oc facts in here wtf lemme find out KTT ain’t jus teenage trolls

Closure is a scam, life isn’t a hallmark card or a Nicholas sparks movies. There’s no such thing as getting over something, you can only move on.

It helps, but you not entitled to one so you better adapt and be able to move on without one (not easy)

I have no other choice but to eat the L

One can create their own closure if needed.

How does one do this ?

I find metta meditation claps everything else for this.

There's an excellent passage speaking about it in the book No Mud No Lotus by Thich Nhat Hanh.

archive.org/details/NoMudNoLotus

That's an archive link to the scanned book (surprised I found this lol). Page 52 is where the section starts.