mr get dough

4mo

A perfect girl isnt gonna leave her boyfriend of 6 years for another man then ask for closure from him

Good luck op, the real one for you is still out there

TheRocket64

4mo

Literally me in 2022 when I was juggling 6 different girls and they all showed up at the same event and were like "how do you know him??"

TheRocket64

4mo

It’s too exhausting of a story

But basically she left her boyfriend of 6 years for me and everything was perfect until she had a falling out with her best friend and then started feeling guilty over not have any closure with her ex

Chip Skylark

4mo

“Closure” Ight man

TheRocket64

4mo

This is beyond a therapy sesh tbh

To me this is like the equivalent to fumbling Rihanna

TheRocket64

4mo

This is beyond a therapy sesh tbh

To me this is like the equivalent to fumbling Rihanna

MIKE JACK

4mo

You're a rich guy just trying to brag to some bots and teenagers as a means of stroking your own ego. Venting is secondary to you right now, and that's giving you the benefit of the doubt. Very shallow and immature. For someone with such material wealth, you are embarrassingly tacky and uncouth in the mind. Consider soul searching.

slik2c

4mo

Two weeks is too soon man you gotta let it marinate for about a month or two. In the mean time you (both) gather your thoughts and learn from your mistakes and once you can properly and clearly express yourself you go have a cordial conversation. Might not be too late to mend or at the very least gain closure

Tell her nigga not us

mr get dough

4mo

A perfect girl isnt gonna leave her boyfriend of 6 years for another man then ask for closure from him

Good luck op, the real one for you is still out there

TheRocket64

4mo

It was a complicated situation

Her ex was the only serious boyfriend she's ever had and they had so many significant life experiences together

It's not that she stopped caring for him but that he was going down a dark path that she didn't want to be around for

I think the guilt all started when his mom reached out to her telling her that he crashed his car and I think she was picturing a Mac Miller type crash out happening soon for him

Valentine

4mo

you fell for it, and I’m sorry

Her and her friend will be good by next month and buddy about to slide back in when once he gets that “hey” text

I’m sorry she had to use the excuse of her and her friend falling out to soften the blow to you that she was never over her ex and y’all were never gonna work out.

Ignore the friend part lol, it’s a cop for compassion as she breaks your heart

TheRocket64

4mo

It was a complicated situation

Her ex was the only serious boyfriend she's ever had and they had so many significant life experiences together

It's not that she stopped caring for him but that he was going down a dark path that she didn't want to be around for

I think the guilt all started when his mom reached out to her telling her that he crashed his car and I think she was picturing a Mac Miller type crash out happening soon for him

MIKE JACK

4mo

You're a rich guy just trying to brag to some bots and teenagers as a means of stroking your own ego. Venting is secondary to you right now, and that's giving you the benefit of the doubt. Very shallow and immature. For someone with such material wealth, you are embarrassingly tacky and uncouth in the mind. Consider soul searching.

Shy

4mo

You're my guy but if we both lost a Rihanna recently, we both can get another. If there's two there's more out here

TheRocket64

4mo

Literally me in 2022 when I was juggling 6 different girls and they all showed up at the same event and were like "how do you know him??"

headieone

4mo

I think you’re cutting her too much slack

If all you said is true I would have been cautious about going all-in with her because, it sounds like she left him reluctantly

TheRocket64

4mo

I know that's what it seems like but I honestly don't think so

I even went to a work event of her's recently (she couldn't make it but I still went) and her closest co-worker told me a secret that she's been praying that I propose to her next year and wants to marry me

Even when we first had the argument over this she was freaking out saying that no matter what I can't break up with her or leave her

mr get dough

4mo

You’re glamorizing her

RICHAXXVOYCE

4mo

My nigga I said one or two, not half a dozen

Valentine

4mo

That’s cool she said that to the friend, but did she express that feeling to you? People can say whatever to other people, but if it isn’t to you, did it really happen? lol.

I don't understand this part of longterm relationships at times, if she really wanted it she would have asked. Straight like that. My cousins decade long girlfriend kept saying she wanted him to propose, I told her to tell him because my cousins was also saying “I wish she would tell me this” and lo and behold they broke up cause ya’ll don’t be just saying what you want 🤦🏾‍♂️ me and my girl cut to the chase and it avoids so many problems

Ya’ll had an argument and she was worried about you leaving? Sounds like she never had faith in the relationship or the strength of ya’lls communication.

Idk, you just don’t jump straight to break up cause we disagreeing. We discuss and rationalize and maybe help you understand your feelings and as a guy you always take the L in an argument, there’s no winning, just let her have it. Pick up the convo later under cooler heads

CutiePieHole

4mo

Hey man focus on your mental health therapy saved my life also drink teas and DO NOT DRINK CAFFEINE. Caffeine increases your brains activity and can lean either way of beneficial or detrimental.

There are other girls out there. View this as if your dog died. You cannot do anything about it. Leave that girl alone if you are sending her messages.

Weed may help at this time but if you have schizophrenia or schizophrenia in your family i do not suggest it. Good luck man!

TheRocket64

4mo

She never directly said it to me but she would allude to it a lot by subtlety referencing the potential of being engaged/married sometime next year

In regards to her worrying about me leaving it all stemmed from me getting so upset over the situation that I let my emotions get the best of me and I said something along the lines of "this isn't fair to me I don't want to be with you if this is how you feel" and she immediately panicked over this

I'm going to let a month go by before I revisit a convo with her

TheRocket64

4mo

Biggest nightmare ever

When the dust settled I had no girls, lost 3 solid friendships, and was basically blacklisted from 3 important spots in SoHo

My friends still laugh over all the drama that happened that week

TheRocket64

4mo

How so?? This is what the situation was