I don’t know what to do right now.

I met this girl at my job and asked for her number and the next day we started meeting up a couple times, having fun, we was talking and she was seeing me out.

Out of nowhere we just stopped meeting up so I told her I really liked her and we should keep seeing each other and I asked her what it was and she was just like she doesn’t want to take things further and she’s trying to get her life together and doesn’t want a relationship because we shouldn’t mix that with working and that I was cool but she just didn’t like me like that.

It’s confusing because we were pretty intimate with each other.

I don’t know how I got so attached, but it’s like damn I feel hopeless and alone, will anybody ever truly want me?

This is probably the worst place to post this at but I don’t have anyone to vent this to, and the whole situation sucks because I’m sure other co workers know something was up with us and it seems like people know she doesn’t like me. Now I have to see this person at work and just awkwardly walk past them or still talk to them now.

Wtf this is painful and embarrassing

You took a little L but you’ll bounce back. She just wasn’t feeling you after a couple times. Maybe she only used you for entertainment for the time being, maybe you did something that turned her off. You’ll drive yourself crazy just thinking about it. I understand you want her like crazy but you just gotta move on from her. Don’t even entertain her with small talk at work, none of that.... unless it’s absolutely mandatory.

Imagine she led you on for like a year and then this happened. Count your lucky stars, pick yourself up, and move on with your life king.

I hope I can get over it soon.

buy her a fish, b****es love fish

Thanks man, this comment actually made me feel good. It’s just gonna be hard at work now.

I remember buying her a McFlurry because she didn’t have cash on her late night at the drive thru, good memories

Never even asked her to pay me back either.

Damn idk what I’d do.

look at it this way, you at least didn't drive her car drunk without a license because she couldnt drive and had to get home, and you got pulled over and might be going to jail for 6 months and she blocked you on socials.

I’m at work rn too, feeling like this here is awful

don't worry OP, she a dog and you just dodged a bullet

spin this tonight

keep it movin my dawg these hoes are dime a dozen

Now you gotta f*** your boss so you can convince them to fire her

do all this stuff and expect that she was gonna like you?

Just had a girl do something similar to me but I only knew the girl for a month

Still kind of hurt but F*** it bro life goes on there are plenty of hoes out there

I know a guy when I was in high school that got a girl a fish as a gift and asked her to prom and she rejected him with the quickness like no other

thats actually amazing

I wanted to say she didnt pass the vibe check but man thats actually so f***ing funny he gave her a fish.

Nah she only ever had two boyfriends, I think she said she was a virgin too but I don’t remember clearly

I feel bad for you @op , and trust me when I tell you I say all this out of love and as a dumb nigga that made the mistake of doing this before I wised up.

You literally have no one to blame for your heartache but your own self bruh.

Bought a McFlurry cause shawty aint have cash and since YOU never asked for money back meant she instantly was gonna like you?

just because you hang out with someone and were intimate (which doesn't imply anything, society's just f***ed us up as men so much that we can't even fathom intimacy outside of romantic relationships) don't mean she gotta like you like that bruh. (a female friend told me this verbatim years ago.)

What probably happened:

She probably thought she was making a cool friend, noticed you was definitely leading somewhere different before you even said anything (bitches can tell that s*** from a mile away bruh) and fell back.

However you currently feel, I promise you she feels 1000x more awkward she gotta go to work knowing there's a coworker so visibly heartbroken that the entire job knows about it and probably gonna paint her in a negative light.

not if OP gets her this:

she will def fall for him instantly