Hi-C

4y

Rent free

worthit

4y

That's true but also let's not be scared to say how it really is with girls sometimes

This is a real life story. My story.
I was seeing this girl for couple weeks but wasn't sure about my feelings. And one night we were laying on a blanked at a park past sunset and the stars were falling (fr) She started hugging me and we started holding hands it was amazing. When I saw my first falling star my wish was so that I could be with her and feel like that forever.

That night I realized my feelings for her so I decided to cuff her and tell her how I feel... Like a week or two later we met and I told her everything.

And this bih at first was like "yeah great" but couple days later called me to say she doesn't think it's a good idea and she's not feeling it

When in desperation I asked her what was her wish when we were holding hands, hugging and the stars were falling

And she said "I wished something more would happen between us"

Make it make sense

What you said is obviously true and sometimes man count the most basic things as hints from the girl

But sometimes a girl can act like she loves you to death and two weeks later be a cold creature

It's just how it is and we have to learn to live in this reality

worthit

4y

@Creasy since when are you so tuff?

insertcoolnamehere

4y

Being intimate with someone doesnt mean romantic is what i meant nigga.

GhostDeini718

4y

That s*** would’ve got me tight after she said that she wished something more would’ve happened between you two.

BRAVE

4y

Did she ever give you any strong signals before you approached her? Or once you got her number and y’all were spending time together, did she ever call you cute or express any physical attraction towards you? Or did she ever seem stricken by your personality: say “you’re something else” or be impressed by you putting her on/how you conducted yourself?

If it’s no to all three questions, that should’ve been a sign she wasn’t feeling you like that. But try to move past it. It’ll be hard but this is something to learn from and improve on so you’ll be sharper by the next girl

insertcoolnamehere

4y

Now this is crazy. Also triggering.

similar situation happened to me (got ghosted like 3 dates in by someone who literally said on the 1st date that one thing they find despicable is people that ghost....then lolwut?)

one of my friends told me she was probably trying to talk herself into something happening or truly believing in the words that she was saying at the time.

Girls are confusing. As hell.

Another caveat (I dunno how many people in here are niggas that talk to black women) is, we dont be understanding just how...well, f***ed up and scarred shawty we talking to is (cause lot of em are never upfront about they demons and past like we are). It might've been something from her past or just....getting familiar feelings scare her and so in return she does (to us) some goofy s***.

One thing I took from that s*** was that, sometimes it don't be working out because of some s*** that's literally out of your own control. I'm sorry you went through that bruh.

worthit

4y

@op I feel you

It's a cliché but it really does get better with time if you take the right steps and let yourself heal

But to justify some of what you went through, and I learned this lesson the hard way (same as you):

Society likes to say that girls are "the ones with feelings" and man are just stone cold and don't care bout all that

But reality is that girls get attached way quicker than man but they also get bored and change their feelings like socks

When it comes to man we take our time to get to know the girl but when we fall for her we fall deep

And that can cause a situation when for first month of your "relationship" the girl was giving clear signals she wants you while you still were thinking "Do I really like her like that?"

And when finally you realize "man... I'm really falling for this girl. I love spending time with her" She will be like "too late hihi I'm already on to the next one haha"

Only solution is communication from the start and on one side the girl has to know your feelings and on the other you need to keep up to date with what's happening in her head

Hope you get better

worthit

4y

I can't 100% understand this to this day

Creasy

4y

im not bro im a b**** fr fr but life could be over any second i dont want us to waste that on being miserable, my head is pinned up up uppity keep movin away from negativity and i advise anyone to follow suit

PNW

4y

It's the fact that it allows people to comfortable hide behind their screen (and anonymity) and spew whatever they want. You see why people on forums act 10 times weirder than say mainstream social media.

Zaywop

4y

If no ones going to say it I will..

It just means she’s now back with her boyfriend or she’s getting attention from the guy she really likes.

Sleazy

4y

buy her a fish, b****es love fish

NakedBalenciaga

4y

This has me dying. You’re as funny as bugs bunny mate

PNW

4y

Y'all need to take a breather