it’s a lot more common than people let on

Deadass the downest and coolest women were always the ones who made an effort to pay and look out for themselves

Niggas looking real funny itt

Nigga just say you hate women

I’m not arguing with yo goofy ass

im just saying it was well put together brother. get well soon

This statement dont add up at all. Cheap ass cop out

how do you even get to that

Yea that’s different that’s understandable or whatever but you asking a woman “hey can i take you to blank place” and expecting them to pay is weird unless it’s on some casual s*** and y’all should probably discuss that before hand

See bro we on the same page F*** does he need money for if thats his gameplan?

I’ve had that but I’ll still pay regardless. It’s common courtesy if I asked them for their time. If the date goes cool she can pay the next one.

You so bothered that people are saying you got ethered yet im the one who's mad

You ain’t gotta be calling women b****es like that

And if you’re taking someone somewhere you probably should pay unless it’s on some casual s***

If you say “Hey I was wondering if I could take you out to a movie and get some food tomorrow”

You pay in that situation

If you say “Aye I was going to see this movie you wanna come”

They have to pay for themselves

Nigga called them b****es and was like is she a hooker

I don’t like that s*** lol

go to the Chipotle online pick up rack and take an order then eat it at the local park.

Go for a walk. Sit in a park.

Go to a gallery. I always do cheap dates and a couple drinks so I'm not wasting my time.

Idk bro i dont feel like paying for s*** just because a women gave me her time

If she doesn’t reciprocate the energy f*** her

B**** better pay me nigga😂😂

I’ll do it when I really want that person to enjoy themselves & not because it’s expected

Hell nah I ain't doing a McDonald's date 😭

He don’t need money if he asked her out to a chill date like that

25 dollars is all he’s probably gonna spend

That’s some casual s***

@op I’ll deadass give you $25

Some niggas could pull that off no cap

I say the grocery store and picnic idea is your best bet

If everyone in this thread donated $25 then @op would have enough for multiple cheap dates.

This is backwards to me lol. How y’all talkin about you gotta pay for her time like she’s a movie you’re renting on prime

And then I’m the nigga who hates women

I agree on the second part tho. If you invite somebody it better be on you.

Just that money doesn’t make the date more or less casual to me

I’ve had dates where I paid for stuff that were super casual and dates where I didn’t that led to relationships

I get that if it’s like going to a fancy dinner or something like that on a first date. However first dates are usually inexpensive so it shouldn’t be a big deal.

I think we have a similar mindset but different approaches.

putting off dating and getting money first

Idk you might be right. Whatever I’m doing seems to work for me though. It attracts the women I like. Very well possible your approach gets you closer to your goal than mine does.