Thread for minorities in western countries to discuss their dating experiences

I’m middle eastern living in a pretty small western country. As long as your not autistic white guys here have absolutely no issues getting women. The hottest girls only look their way, and they never want anything serious with a non white guy.

The sad part is even the minority women want western men. I’m attractive and successful, more than most of these white guys and get lots of matches on dating apps but very few follow throughs. A lot of women in this society instantly exclude minorities like me as an option

I can pull girls irl I’m not awkward but playing the game on an uneven playing field can be frustrating.

Share your thoughts and fellow experiences below

Im unattractive

I’ve never dated and it will probably be 60x harder now.

There’s still some hope though

Do you see your situation as a problem, OP? You say you get girls, you can pull girls etc. etc. so what's wrong? Are you upset that you don't pull as many as white guys?

Look at it from the bright side, it's easier making a genuine connection with someone who wants to be with you and is able to see you past your ethnicity or success (which is all relative anyway).

Realise you're a king that don't need the validation of people who cannot even see you for you

And I'm saying this is as a black man that's also living in a western european country that's probably struggled with the same insecurites/viewpoints years ago.

I guess you could say I’m upset I don’t get as many girls as white guys or enter relationships as easily as they seem to when I know my value and what I offer.

Well I mean racism in dating is an obvious thing, people chock it up to something something "personal perfrerence" when really they just have beauty standards or expectations that will cloud their judgement of other people. To them if it means that exclude billions of people on Earth due to skin color then they'll obv do it.

Have confidence regardless, don't put your worth in other people. On top of that never forget that people like that just tend to be morons either way and you'll be better off.

A big problem for me is evaluating my worth on validation from women and idk how to change this which is a shame because I know there’s so much more to me to be confident about

im chinese in a western nation and i find it alright. i havent noticed any racism. if anything i chalk it up to preference. keep your head up high king we pmf out here

Im middle eastern

For some reason east asian girls love me. Middle eastern girls are attracted to me too but they can be shy around me for some reason.

Don't have much to do with white girls. And I barely see any black girls. Had positive experiences with south asian girls but thexy're a bit rare here.

I'm not going to pretend I'm completely over that as well. But the best thing you could do is gain more life experience, see women's/people's flaws and begin to take them less seriously. We live in a world where if you're the most confident and loudest guy in the room people will want to be around you. You could be a complete moron and have no understanding of anything, but you're the loud guy and you'll be perceived as better. It makes no sense in general. Or you could be a shy egghead with a heart of gold, but if people see you as a pushover they'll treat you like one.

When you realize that people have implicit biases and be more or less be swayed to see you a certain way just off the way you act, you wont take their opinions seriously.

Just have no fear whatsoever, and don't pay a single attention to anyone. Keep course and push forward, do what you want regardless.

am middle eastern in europe n pretty and its definitely true that most hoes here into white men but its not that bad. i been with every race of woman except for like scandinavian

last time i was on tinder i got like 2 likes in 2 days tho

granted my bio basically said im jus tryna f*** but still, im cute!! i felt very slighted, they must have all been racist

I went on 4chan one day and all of them complained about white women going after people of other races. Wtf?

You went on 4chan? Bye racist ✌

this thread is made every month

really depends on what area u live in

ugly or short and most likely racist losers who cant get laid

site is full of degenerates

Lol who are you?

Yeah i always wondered what the f***. Like both sides same exact same problem. Seemed weird to me.

I live in a country where white people are far and away the leaders of society and the minority populations are very small, as well as a racist history. Hoping to move to a country where I would be more appreciated in the coming years

What country?

Y'all be so pressed off these white b****es I swear 🙄 seek help

Some of this thread highkey sounding like Elliot Rodgers

Gang gang

I live in L.A so there's really no issue for me in finding women that are into me (brown latino). If I strike out with a girl it's usually because we didn't really click and nothing to do with me being brown. Of course I know white men have an easier time when it comes to dating but that doesn't really affect my game at all.

A lot of asian women are into white guys but I have dated a couple asian chicks and I am currently with one atm. All the asians I was with said they never thought they'd date someone of my race and color but they liked something in me and all that stuff didn't matter to them anymore. I assume it's like that for most people so I don't have that fear or doubt my race or skin color is going to hold me back in dating so I go after who I want. It's been successful so far.

“Middle Eastern living in western country’ can you narrow this down or are you a spy?