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  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    Yeah I haven’t talked to a female outside of a professional setting in like 7 or so years

    It’s been about 10 years since my initial villain origin story began so I thought most of my distrust in females was gone but being in recovery for an ED, it made me realize I still can’t trust them. Especially when I was observing everyone and this one b**** starting looking at me like a f***ing weirdo and did a slow wave at me so I guess I can’t look at people anymore. I just didn’t acknowledge their existence for most of my time there. I only interacted with them when I felt comfortable but staff kept pressuring me into being vulnerable and participating in group which I wasn’t at that stage. The staff ain’t s*** they constantly made me feel uncomfortable by putting thoughts in my head that I was making people uncomfortable with my hair of all f***ing things.

    ”Especially when I was observing everyone and this one b**** starting looking at me like a f***ing weirdo and did a slow wave at me so I guess I can’t look at people anymore. I just didn’t acknowledge their existence for most of my time there.”

  • Mar 14, 2024

    ngl this is a great thread

    thank you @op

    quality content in L&A

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    ”Especially when I was observing everyone and this one b**** starting looking at me like a f***ing weirdo and did a slow wave at me so I guess I can’t look at people anymore. I just didn’t acknowledge their existence for most of my time there.”

    what else am I supposed to do? They sat me in a seat isolated from everyone when I first got there and I’m not gonna introduce myself cause I don’t move like that. I’d rather observe people and see what they’re about so I know what to say. But apparently you can’t do that in an all female space that I didn’t ask to be in. I was in there for myself to get better and I did.

  • It wasn’t all bad tho. I had some females that were cool with me. One of the activities was to write compliments on a paper and pass them around. This was my sheet

    I framed it to protect it with a thing another patient gave me

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    what else am I supposed to do? They sat me in a seat isolated from everyone when I first got there and I’m not gonna introduce myself cause I don’t move like that. I’d rather observe people and see what they’re about so I know what to say. But apparently you can’t do that in an all female space that I didn’t ask to be in. I was in there for myself to get better and I did.

    sounds like a bit of an over correction to act like they don’t exist over that interaction, but im a pretty isolated and reticent person that doesn’t really like people either so i don’t really blame you in essence

    little things like that are things that i’d remember

  • Idk where the non judgmental thing came from tho

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    X7JQ9L2MF4A8Z

    sounds like a bit of an over correction to act like they don’t exist over that interaction, but im a pretty isolated and reticent person that doesn’t really like people either so i don’t really blame you in essence

    little things like that are things that i’d remember

    I just legitimately didn’t know what to do. Idk what females like and don’t like so I guess I interpreted that as “stay away from us” so I was like “bet

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    I just legitimately didn’t know what to do. Idk what females like and don’t like so I guess I interpreted that as “stay away from us” so I was like “bet

    Have some balls, kill the idea that women are like gremlins that come with a rulebook (other than asking them if theyre hungry every few hours. That is law and abiding will take you places) , and stop calling them females like youre conducting a science experiment. Most women like to feel like a woman or lady. Address them as such

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    NGNL

    Have some balls, kill the idea that women are like gremlins that come with a rulebook (other than asking them if theyre hungry every few hours. That is law and abiding will take you places) , and stop calling them females like youre conducting a science experiment. Most women like to feel like a woman or lady. Address them as such

    I just don’t understand them and I don’t really need to understand them. I’m much better without people anyway. If I could I’d live far away from females. But I can ignore them for the most part even if I feel uncomfortable around them

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    what else am I supposed to do? They sat me in a seat isolated from everyone when I first got there and I’m not gonna introduce myself cause I don’t move like that. I’d rather observe people and see what they’re about so I know what to say. But apparently you can’t do that in an all female space that I didn’t ask to be in. I was in there for myself to get better and I did.

    This nigga probably fumbled so much p**** or opportunities to grow as a person socially cause he can’t get over himself

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Vino

    This nigga probably fumbled so much p**** or opportunities to grow as a person socially cause he can’t get over himself

    P**** is not important. What’s important is loving yourself and giving yourself time. You won’t have that with a nagging hole around your arm

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    P**** is not important. What’s important is loving yourself and giving yourself time. You won’t have that with a nagging hole around your arm

    Like I said, it’s not just about getting p****. You glossed over my second point

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Vino

    Like I said, it’s not just about getting p****. You glossed over my second point

    I didn’t gloss over it. It wasn’t there at the time of writing

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    RASIE

    If its just sexual then absolutely not. But i do think its bad if you start having romantic feelings or falling in love with someone and you dont end your current relationship/marriage before pursuing that new relationship.

    man f***ing a couple times sure maybe
    if thats a constant sneaky link that you f***in more than 3 times a week feelings gonna get involved

    but in the context of marriage it is wrong. you are vowing to be committed to the one person.

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Clipaveli The Don

    I didn’t gloss over it. It wasn’t there at the time of writing

    It would have said edited it was there before you responded

  • Vino

    It would have said edited it was there before you responded

    I didn’t see it

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    I swear that s*** was edited in

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Lisa

    I believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.

    For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.

    I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.

    Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.

  • Mar 14, 2024
    Clipaveli The Don

    I swear that s*** was edited in

    yea you can edit within 2 mins and it wouldn't show as edited

    but your feelings are valid. just hope you grow out of it and have better relationships with people

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    That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

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    Clipaveli The Don
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    That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

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    Clipaveli The Don
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    That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

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    That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

  • Mar 14, 2024
    voriox

    thread got me crying yo

  • Mar 14, 2024
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    Vino

    That doesn’t say edited yet you edited it

    Only Pharrell was there

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