Clipaveli The Don

12mo

That doesn’t say edited yet you edited it

Only Pharrell was there

mdmadon

12mo

na 1 slip she's out cant be out here like will n marcel

mishka

12mo

so while on the topic of cheating, is "emotional cheating" forgivable? One of my best friends got "emotionally cheated" on a couple years ago. His ex, who was a co-worker of mine, went out dancing with some friends at a country bar and she was caught (through her friend's story mind you lmao) dancing on a random. Furthermore, she was caught texting another male co-worker essentially venting about her current relationship with my boy.

my friend argues that he got cheated on, which is true I guess? She definintely wasn't loyal. But I have a hard time calling it outright cheating without the physical aspect even though I know emotional cheating can hurt just as bad. Idk maybe I gotta grow up. They stuck to it for another month or so before they both called it quits.

mishka

12mo

so while on the topic of cheating, is "emotional cheating" forgivable? One of my best friends got "emotionally cheated" on a couple years ago. His ex, who was a co-worker of mine, went out dancing with some friends at a country bar and she was caught (through her friend's story mind you lmao) dancing on a random. Furthermore, she was caught texting another male co-worker essentially venting about her current relationship with my boy.

my friend argues that he got cheated on, which is true I guess? She definintely wasn't loyal. But I have a hard time calling it outright cheating without the physical aspect even though I know emotional cheating can hurt just as bad. Idk maybe I gotta grow up. They stuck to it for another month or so before they both called it quits.

mishka

12mo

so while on the topic of cheating, is "emotional cheating" forgivable? One of my best friends got "emotionally cheated" on a couple years ago. His ex, who was a co-worker of mine, went out dancing with some friends at a country bar and she was caught (through her friend's story mind you lmao) dancing on a random. Furthermore, she was caught texting another male co-worker essentially venting about her current relationship with my boy.

my friend argues that he got cheated on, which is true I guess? She definintely wasn't loyal. But I have a hard time calling it outright cheating without the physical aspect even though I know emotional cheating can hurt just as bad. Idk maybe I gotta grow up. They stuck to it for another month or so before they both called it quits.

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

NGNL

12mo

People giving you to the opportunity to open up and your response… is to not open up then blame it on nobody understanding you? Do better man, youre not superior to any crowd for liking entry level shounen anime

Lisa

12mo

I believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.

For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.

I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.

Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

Yeah I haven’t talked to a female outside of a professional setting in like 7 or so years

It’s been about 10 years since my initial villain origin story began so I thought most of my distrust in females was gone but being in recovery for an ED, it made me realize I still can’t trust them. Especially when I was observing everyone and this one b**** starting looking at me like a f***ing weirdo and did a slow wave at me so I guess I can’t look at people anymore. I just didn’t acknowledge their existence for most of my time there. I only interacted with them when I felt comfortable but staff kept pressuring me into being vulnerable and participating in group which I wasn’t at that stage. The staff ain’t s*** they constantly made me feel uncomfortable by putting thoughts in my head that I was making people uncomfortable with my hair of all f***ing things.

OnyxShine9

12mo

Genuinely consider therapy you got some stuff to talk and work out

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

I am.

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand

OnyxShine9

12mo

How long you been at it

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

I started in December but she forgot to put me in for a second session so I went a couple months without another one. We’ve only had 2 sessions and they were mainly for ED

OnyxShine9

12mo

That sucks dude. You might as well be starting from the top again but it was only one appointment so not much of a waste anyway. Also stay on top of booking your own appointments 2 or 3 in advance so you don’t run into problems like this it makes everything so much easier when things are consistent trust me

I missed one appointment with my doc and the next one she cancelled due to a family emergency and it’s been over a month since my 2nd appointment but I’m ready to get back so I feel you

Lisa

12mo

I believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.

For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.

I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.

Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.

OldAssChampion

12mo

Nah it’s just a nut

Once you start talking s*** about your partner and planning to start a family with the other person then that’s when it’s a wrap

Clipaveli The Don

12mo

She actually worked at the ED treatment center I was at and she said that the staff made other patients uncomfortable and judged by other patients too so atleast I’m not alone on that.