Mar 14, 2024·1 reply
OnyxShine9what is ED
Eating disorder not Errectile dysfunction
- Mar 14, 2024Clipaveli The Don
Eating disorder not Errectile dysfunction
Glad it’s not that or special ED cause I was scratching my head at all those posts fr
- Mar 14, 2024
It was actually funny. This other dude from the upstairs part of the building for the severely malnourished actually came up to me and was like I fw your hair and Vegeta shirt and he was like “I wish there was some more guys in here” so he felt the same way as I felt. Boys need boys they can be boys with.
RASIE 🦦Mar 14, 2024Mr Papi Nigga Daveman f***ing a couple times sure maybe
if thats a constant sneaky link that you f***in more than 3 times a week feelings gonna get involvedbut in the context of marriage it is wrong. you are vowing to be committed to the one person.
If you're f***ing a different person every time then there is no feelings involved. Or if you f*** a person multiple times and you've made it clear that its just s***and nothing else, and the other person understands that. (If the other person starts acting like they want more than just s***then cut them off and find another f*** buddy).
And having s***with someone else =/= not being committed. I'd argue that being in love and supporting your spouse emotionally, personally, and/or professionally is a much larger factor in commitment than sex. And you can also still have a great s***life with your spouse but also enjoy having s***with other people.
You cant reasonably argue that having s***with other people outside of your marriage, with no emotional or romantic involvement, is "not being committed" to your spouse when getting divorced is a full-blown abandonment of all committment and the divorce rate is absurdly high right now.
We live in a world where the idea that married people stop having s***("not tonight i have a headache") has been a pop-cultural meme used as comic relief in all forms of entertainment for over half a century.
What if your spouse has one of the many hormonal deficiency or genital illnesses that makes s***extremely difficult, painful, or literally incapable of having it? What if you get married and one year later one of those illnesses presents itself? You're just supposed to never have s***without anything but your hand until you die because having a sexual affair would be "wrong" and an exaggerated betrayal of "commitment"?
Marital commitment being linked with non-emotional s***sounds like some dead cultural holdover from the previous century when it was much less common for someone to be non-Christian/Catholic. It's straight from the implied moral codes found in family propaganda from the 1950s.
- CKL TML 🌺Mar 14, 2024OnyxShine9
What do you mean "whats the point?" To see how you all feel about it not me.
I had no way of knowing how you felt before you told me.LMFAO
Mar 14, 2024LisaI believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.
For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.
I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.
Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.
Read this twice.
Mar 14, 2024LisaI believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.
For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.
I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.
Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.
Powerful.
- RASIE 🦦Mar 14, 2024·1 replyLisa
I believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.
For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.
I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.
Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.
Actually want to edit my original reply to this and say:
This is the most realistic and level headed answer to this question.
However, i will say that paying for sexual affairs without your spouse's knowledge, especially if you share finances in your marriage, errs on the side of "wrong". I would say that leaves your marriage open to financial risk if something happens and you suddenly cant cover a payment because you recently paid a prostitute for sex. If i was your spouse, that would make me much more upset and feel less supported than the actual s***itself.
Mar 14, 2024LisaI believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.
For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.
I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.
Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.
Ngl I’ve heard many stories of married men doing this and while most of the time their justification is a sexless marriage or fantasy
It’s still wrong at the end of the day and you should talk to your partner if you have problems with your s***life with them instead of cheating
- Mar 14, 2024
mishkaso while on the topic of cheating, is "emotional cheating" forgivable? One of my best friends got "emotionally cheated" on a couple years ago. His ex, who was a co-worker of mine, went out dancing with some friends at a country bar and she was caught (through her friend's story mind you lmao) dancing on a random. Furthermore, she was caught texting another male co-worker essentially venting about her current relationship with my boy.
my friend argues that he got cheated on, which is true I guess? She definintely wasn't loyal. But I have a hard time calling it outright cheating without the physical aspect even though I know emotional cheating can hurt just as bad. Idk maybe I gotta grow up. They stuck to it for another month or so before they both called it quits.
to me ain't no problem venting to a nigga when clearly the other person can't talk to you bout it. they need an outlet and gonna go to someone that listens
- Mar 14, 2024·1 replyClipaveli The Don
That crowd wasn’t for me anyway. I opened up about projecting myself onto characters I see and they all wondered who Sasuke was so I’m like “well the details aren’t important but anyway”. I need a b**** with the same neurodivergence as me that’ll understand
Pls tell me your trolling
Mar 14, 2024LisaI believe there is a clear distinction to be made between physical and emotional "cheating" and one of the two is obviously far worse 9/10 times.
For example I'm married and I would never emotionally cheat. I'm 100% loyal to my wife and family and I do not form meaningful relationships with other women. I don't give them the time of day. I have no desire to have an actual relationship with another woman.
I do however pay s***workers for services which are purely transactional and no strings attached. I don't think there's anything really wrong with this. It's just a way to physically stimulate myself in a more entertaining way than just jerking off.
Emotional cheating is true betrayal. Simply having s***with someone no strings attached isn't nearly as bad.
Ctfu
- Mar 14, 2024·1 replyyungcartier
Pls tell me your trolling
I’m not they really didn’t know who Sasuke was
- Mar 14, 2024Clipaveli The Don
I’m not they really didn’t know who Sasuke was
That’s not what I…
You know what do you
- Mar 14, 2024Kratos
Emotional cheating is 100% cheating
but it's not comparable to physical cheating right? Like no denying it hurts but nobody can tell me emotional is worse than physical cheating (I mean even the latter implies a minimum of emotion involved)
Mar 14, 2024·1 replyClipaveli The DonI just don’t understand them and I don’t really need to understand them. I’m much better without people anyway. If I could I’d live far away from females. But I can ignore them for the most part even if I feel uncomfortable around them
Damn, loser high alert
- Mar 14, 2024Knx
Damn, loser high alert
I wear it on my sleeve
Mar 14, 2024Clipaveli The DonI just don’t understand them and I don’t really need to understand them. I’m much better without people anyway. If I could I’d live far away from females. But I can ignore them for the most part even if I feel uncomfortable around them
Mar 14, 2024Cheating is a waste of time and energy.
- Mar 14, 2024Clipaveli The Don
P**** is not important. What’s important is loving yourself and giving yourself time. You won’t have that with a nagging hole around your arm
i just know u stink
Mar 14, 2024·1 replyClipaveli The DonCheating traumatized me so much that I can’t trust a single female anymore cause that’s happened in every relationship I’ve been in. It’s also driven me to d*** addiction. it’s devastating
That's starting to sound like you picking the wrong women. Getting cheated by everyone one of them? There has to be a red flag pattern you're missing
- Mar 14, 2024ragedsycokiller
That's starting to sound like you picking the wrong women. Getting cheated by everyone one of them? There has to be a red flag pattern you're missing
Probably cause I get feelings for any female that even says hi to me so I latch on whoever is attracted to me cause that’s probably rare
My only real standards was to just look nice shave and be into me too and not be married
- Mar 14, 2024·1 replyRASIE
Actually want to edit my original reply to this and say:
This is the most realistic and level headed answer to this question.
However, i will say that paying for sexual affairs without your spouse's knowledge, especially if you share finances in your marriage, errs on the side of "wrong". I would say that leaves your marriage open to financial risk if something happens and you suddenly cant cover a payment because you recently paid a prostitute for sex. If i was your spouse, that would make me much more upset and feel less supported than the actual s***itself.
Fortunately my wife and I are financially comfortable so this isn’t a worry of mine. My only real worry is bringing home some form of STI, even a curable one, and giving it to my wife.
That’s why I stopped messing with AMP’s a long time ago because I did get chlamydia once. Curable with two Zithromax so wasn’t a big deal but could’ve been worse. After that I only mess with high class escorts who take their careers very seriously and get tested round the clock and properly screen clients.
But again this isn’t something I do weekly. At one point I did, multiple times per week even. But post Covid I’ve calmed down a lot. I’ll usually just book a high class escort if I’m in a new city or a new country so maybe just 4-10 per year.
Mar 14, 2024OnyxShine9I’m trying to understand this but I don’t. You don’t think s***outside marriage is adultery but talking smack about your partner is?
I don’t believe in adultry, I think talking bad about your partner is disrespectful
Mar 15, 2024
GabrieljesusMarcel got done disgusting 😂
In his situation I’m out especially if you’re married and have a kid etc
If you ain’t been dating for too long I might let it slide 🙃
disgusting he more famous for this than anything else
the only way he can come back is bagging zendaya/alist actress or piping every insta bbl onlyfans turbothot5000. na i cant agree but lets hope it never happens g n everyone in this thread has loyal tings 