I was with my last girlfriend for 12 years, engaged and had a house together, started dating when we were 13. Gave up my dreams for her, bought her a car when she needed it; then another when she needed it again. Took her everywhere she wanted to go. Trust me, I know the feeling
However, a year later and I’m doing fine. She’s not, she calls me crying and begging me to get back with her, and because I care about her that f***s me up because I’ve always wanted to make her happy but after the events of the last year I’ve discovered I’ve gotta worry about myself first and foremost.
You’ll get there too. Let these emotions process but don’t act on them, because you won’t be thinking clearly and will likely regret any decisions you make in moments like these.
Bro I hear situations like yours and it makes me not wanna ever get married women are so f***ing heartless man. It makes me so sad because I want to be a good person but it’s so hard when I get no reward for my f***ing kindness
It’s so easy for people (most of them are the ones that never been with a girl) to say move on, there are plenty of women. Well I have gone through 20+ of them bro. I’m tired of it
it's ideal for most people to use the concept of karma as their personal assassin for getting dealt with accordingly but ion believe in that s*** and ion believe in vengeance either, i just know at some point people get caught lacking and if they get ended for it , it is what it is.
I don't believe in reincarnation in the hindu sense, so no not really.
Mean spirited people usually attract other mean spirited people but that's just common sense
I think it’s the opposite tbh! A lot of mean spirited people just know how to fake it and pull good spirit people towards them by acting phony and then they start to show their true colors
it's ideal for most people to use the concept of karma as their personal assassin for getting dealt with accordingly but ion believe in that s*** and ion believe in vengeance either, i just know at some point people get caught lacking and if they get ended for it , it is what it is.
soms actually manage to take thier wicked Ws with them to the grave
reason god exist
it's ideal for most people to use the concept of karma as their personal assassin for getting dealt with accordingly but ion believe in that s*** and ion believe in vengeance either, i just know at some point people get caught lacking and if they get ended for it , it is what it is.
Man that doesn’t sit right with me. I wanna know this person is suffering directly because of me and the only way I can know that is if I avenge whatever they did to me. I know it sounds really f***ed up and I only have these thoughts/intentions when I’m really hurt. For most s*** that happens to me, I let it go no questions asked
soms actually manage to take thier wicked Ws with them to the grave
reason god exist
Wait elaborate on this?
Man that doesn’t sit right with me. I wanna know this person is suffering directly because of me and the only way I can know that is if I avenge whatever they did to me. I know it sounds really f***ed up and I only have these thoughts/intentions when I’m really hurt. For most s*** that happens to me, I let it go no questions asked
might as well dig 2 graves if you're thinking on that level of extremity, nothing good ever comes of sitting in your room wishing harm on someone bc they put you in a position of adversity, patterns repeat themselves and eventually their misdoings catch up w/ them.
Wait elaborate on this?
some pedo billionaire will rob the poor f*** thier kids & traffic thier women & then prolly live happily till the age of 90 & die peacefully in a 5 stars hotel jacuzzi.
people believing that guy is just going to rest in "peace" is crazy to me
might as well dig 2 graves if you're thinking on that level of extremity, nothing good ever comes of sitting in your room wishing harm on someone bc they put you in a position of adversity, patterns repeat themselves and eventually their misdoings catch up w/ them.
If this c*** ever comes back in my life all I wanna do is let her taste her own medicine and at the end of it all ask her “I guess the slates are clean, wanna start over?” The audacity some people have after doing you wrong and running back to you as if nothing happened
some pedo billionaire will rob the poor f*** thier kids & traffic thier women & then prolly live happily till the age of 90 & die peacefully in a 5 stars hotel jacuzzi.
people believing that guy is just going to rest in "peace" is crazy to me
So your saying that despite the fantastic life this person led despite committing all the sins, he is going to finally pay for all his sins in hell when he dies?
Yeah bro I don’t believe in this at all! I don’t believe in heaven or hell until I get there. The fact that this person lived this good life despite all the s*** he did are hypothetical examples of why I don’t believe in karma because s*** like this happens all the time. Some of the most evil People destroy lives and live peacefully till their shortest day without any consequences
If this c*** ever comes back in my life all I wanna do is let her taste her own medicine and at the end of it all ask her “I guess the slates are clean, wanna start over?” The audacity some people have after doing you wrong and running back to you as if nothing happened
that's where the capacity to forgive comes into place for yourself and you don't have to forgive that person also but usually 9 times outta 10 people don't know no better it's all they know and the world will sort them out in the end.
that's where the capacity to forgive comes into place for yourself and you don't have to forgive that person also but usually 9 times outta 10 people don't know no better it's all they know and the world will sort them out in the end.
I guess bro i see your point of view. I have a good heart man... but for all the wrong f***ing people
So your saying that despite the fantastic life this person led despite committing all the sins, he is going to finally pay for all his sins in hell when he dies?
Yeah bro I don’t believe in this at all! I don’t believe in heaven or hell until I get there. The fact that this person lived this good life despite all the s*** he did are hypothetical examples of why I don’t believe in karma because s*** like this happens all the time. Some of the most evil People destroy lives and live peacefully till their shortest day without any consequences
so god gave humans a whole ass brain just so they can f*** around & die into Oblivion like nothing happened
could've just made them another animal & dipped
so god gave humans a whole ass brain just so they can f*** around & die into Oblivion like nothing happened
could've just made them another animal & dipped
Bro I hate bringing religion into topics like these man. We can go back and forth about religion but it will literally never end. I just don’t agree with your point of view of how no matter how bad a person is and how much he gets away with life, god will finally deal with him. I don’t agree with that
You don't know how to tell the truth
how tf is there a right way to tell the truth?
Man. . . Karma isn't real It's an Indian concept defined by a British word to simplify our understanding of this Indian concept
Vengeance on the other hand will send you to jail
Vengeance will f*** ur life up this facts
Being able to forgive is great man that's the answer
Forgive and surround urself with similarly positive and loving people. Vengeance is a waste of time and energy
so god gave humans a whole ass brain just so they can f*** around & die into Oblivion like nothing happened
could've just made them another animal & dipped
Animals are smart have imaginations and feelings
We are animals
So your saying that despite the fantastic life this person led despite committing all the sins, he is going to finally pay for all his sins in hell when he dies?
Yeah bro I don’t believe in this at all! I don’t believe in heaven or hell until I get there. The fact that this person lived this good life despite all the s*** he did are hypothetical examples of why I don’t believe in karma because s*** like this happens all the time. Some of the most evil People destroy lives and live peacefully till their shortest day without any consequences
U should look into the work of Robert Monroe
Someone so vile will be so lost upon death that they will likely be pulled into a very bleak space either into the tangle of bodies f***ing for eternity never reaching climax and becoming lost in the pile suffocating for Infinity or called to a lower form of consciousness full of anger where they will become some very base lifeform like a leech
The afterlife is not binary there are countably infinite worlds that you can explore if you're strong enough to avoid the traps
Being able to forgive is great man that's the answer
Forgive and surround urself with similarly positive and loving people. Vengeance is a waste of time and energy
What if you keep on forgiving every person that does you wrong and yet you have nothing but misery in your life. I’m so f***ing tired of forgiving and being a saint when all i do is get f***ed over time and time again
What if you keep on forgiving every person that does you wrong and yet you have nothing but misery in your life. I’m so f***ing tired of forgiving and being a saint when all i do is get f***ed over time and time again
Forgiving is about moving on
Moving on emotionally mentally and if necessary physically
You can forgive and move on from a toxic situation. U should avoid people who are toxic
Forgiving is about moving on
Moving on emotionally mentally and if necessary physically
You can forgive and move on from a toxic situation. U should avoid people who are toxic
I’m tired of moving on bro. I have done everything you are saying and I still keep getting hurt and going back to the same dark spot.
Also it’s so hard to judge who’s toxic man. People hide their true colors way later till your deeply involved with them