Psychodrama

3y

if a girl wants to cheat she can do it anytime and most of us wont ever notice it

it's not like there's an invisible barrier against cheating that disappears during a break

darklex150

3y

I'm 28. Breaks dont work fam.

Some people make them work cus they are dependent on each other not realizing why they took a break in the first place.

J__

3y

Every reply so far has been by someone under 25 for sure lol

It's definitely a case-by-case situation

Breaks don't necessarily mean either person is going to go sleep with anyone else.

J__

3y

I just feel it's a case-by-case thing

Couples can end up really missing one another.

Bill

3y

In my own personal opinion the circumstances have to be very specific for it to work where the relationship lasts much longer / leads to marriage or being together for a long time.

It seems like when longer breaks are taken where both people have time to be single or see others and happen upon eachother single again and realize what they were missing it can lead to a long term relationship. The other is just the break out of rage that simmers down if what was done was completely forgiveable can also work out.

But most times people take breaks, it either leads to multiple other breaks spanning the next few months to a year (ending in breakup) or the break makes the people realize they arnt gonna resolve the outstanding issues or circumstances with the other person and never actually really get back together.

Most people I know who’ve taken breaks end up breaking up within a year of the break (if they get back together) but occasionally it does work out (my sister and her boy took two 1 month breaks within the first year of their relationship and have now been together almost 4 years).

I’ve had no success with breaks, one break just ended in a breakup after a few weeks because we both realized we wanted to be single and the other I got back with the girl a few weeks after we decided to take a break and when we broke up for good a few months later she told me she only wanted to be back together with me because she didn’t want to see me with anyone else.

What’s your opinion? Do you think they are useful and actually work out or do you think it’s usually a sign the relationship is coming to an end?

Flaboi

3y

Ok but you didn’t answer the question. If you found out, could you?( on your “break”)

J__

3y

Every reply so far has been by someone under 25 for sure lol

It's definitely a case-by-case situation

Breaks don't necessarily mean either person is going to go sleep with anyone else.

A Mad Ass Nigga

3y

Some of y’all jump to worst case scenario off everything and wonder why you’re insecure lol breaks can be a healthy thing for your relationship. No not everyone want a break to f*** other people. Sometimes both of you need to work on things as people before coming together as one. I feel like the people who can’t give themselves time to work on themselves are truly the dependent ones.

ferraritears

3y

how bout i break your ass

A Mad Ass Nigga

3y

Some of y’all jump to worst case scenario off everything and wonder why you’re insecure lol breaks can be a healthy thing for your relationship. No not everyone want a break to f*** other people. Sometimes both of you need to work on things as people before coming together as one. I feel like the people who can’t give themselves time to work on themselves are truly the dependent ones.

Flaboi

3y

Could you take your girl back if she f***ed during the break?

Psychodrama

3y

if you want to rejuvenate a relationship I believe trips and vacation are way better than breaks

sometimes all we need is a change of scenery and relief from routine

Flaboi

3y

Could you take your girl back if she f***ed during the break?

Rhysington

3y

every time i took a break from a shordy it was to get some next p**** on the side right quick