Get rid of everything that reminds you of her, find stuff to occupy your time (work, gym, hobbies) and wait.
Or find a badder b****.
/r/Cancun
Take care
@op will thank you later for this
this s*** hurts and I miss her so much
but seriously, don't be afraid to seek therapy.
but seriously, don't be afraid to seek therapy.
therapy for a broken heart ? bruh
EDIT: after speaking with @insertcoolnamehere and @Ya_Boy_Ace I understand how harsh this sounded, this is in no way therapy shaming I myself go to therapy and it did me wonders, I just believe this can be too much because there are some things that you have to learn to deal with yourself and not use therapy as an escape mechanism
Time heals all and life will go on. Unfortunately there is no short cut to recovery but your time will come
therapy for a broken heart ? bruh
EDIT: after speaking with @insertcoolnamehere and @Ya_Boy_Ace I understand how harsh this sounded, this is in no way therapy shaming I myself go to therapy and it did me wonders, I just believe this can be too much because there are some things that you have to learn to deal with yourself and not use therapy as an escape mechanism
You can talk to a therapist about damn near any inconvenience in life lol get the f*** out of here with therapy shaming
You can talk to a therapist about damn near any inconvenience in life lol get the f*** out of here with therapy shaming
i wasn't gonna reply to him, assuming some of these niggas is children makes a lot of these posts understandable lol.
You can talk to a therapist about damn near any inconvenience in life lol get the f*** out of here with therapy shaming
I used to go to a therapist every single month, I would be the last person to therapy shame the thing is hiding and only sharing with a therapist is also dangerous you get more introverted, op needs to talk with his friends about this, homies are the best for situations like these, running for a therapist for something as a heartbreak seems too much
I used to go to a therapist every single month, I would be the last person to therapy shame the thing is hiding and only sharing with a therapist is also dangerous you get more introverted, op needs to talk with his friends about this, homies are the best for situations like these, running for a therapist for something as a heartbreak seems too much
the last part made no sense. how is me saying seek therapy mean he's hiding things?
you can talk things out with the homies and still seek therapy lol.
There’s really no tips. Time heal all wounds.
Yeah this is what I originally came to post. Letting time pass really is the #1 tip... I like the tips about hydration and spending time with friends, too. Being outside always helped me, too. Just walking around and keeping your mind activated with s*** that isn't just dwelling on the past
I used to go to a therapist every single month, I would be the last person to therapy shame the thing is hiding and only sharing with a therapist is also dangerous you get more introverted, op needs to talk with his friends about this, homies are the best for situations like these, running for a therapist for something as a heartbreak seems too much
Ok I get you but I feel like this post and your last one aren't necessarily tied together - like your first one seemed to be down on any type of therapy for a heartbreak, where this one warns against using it as your only coping mechanism and hiding from the reality
the last part made no sense. how is me saying seek therapy mean he's hiding things?
you can talk things out with the homies and still seek therapy lol.
if you really need therapy and feel like s***, yes definitely get therapy, but you shouldn't use it as an escape mechanism
im guessing by op's post this s*** is recent, he's dealing with first impact, he should figure out for himself how he feels instead of running for a therapist
yes you can have homies and still have therapists, but a lot of kids hide in therapy specially the loner ones, it ends up making it worse for them
I'm speaking from my personal experience and from friends that went to therapy too, therapy is excellent and it can do really good to you but I feel like you also have the need to figure somethings out on your own
love man, didn't want to disrespect you or @Ya_Boy_Ace
Ok I get you but I feel like this post and your last one aren't necessarily tied together - like your first one seemed to be down on any type of therapy for a heartbreak, where this one warns against using it as your only coping mechanism and hiding from the reality
yeah you're right my first post was too harsh