I finished school, I got a good job. Now I don’t know what to do. Feels like everyday is the same. I just returned from vacation, which I enjoyed because it shook up my routine.

Does the answer lie in traveling? I’m 26. My work is remote so I can just keep moving and traveling while I do that. It seems like the right approach, but it also sounds scary. Because it’s a lot of change constantly. But it also feels like it’s what I need. I feel like staying where I am makes me super antisocial and entrenched in my bad habits.

Thoughts?

Seize the means bro

Don’t. derail. this. thread.

You have the white emojis. Anyway what do you do?

He’s a kid that still lives with his parents

You said you wanted to live downtown because homeless people and d*** dependent folks entertain you

Delete this

Can't u just go try it and if u don't like it u can always go back home met some people that did this and a couple others that would just get jobs locally always seemed pretty cool honestly in a different life that would've been me fr fr

Yeah that sounds dope in theory. What keeps you from doing it? If I have the ability, I’m crazy to not to right?

How was the vacay? You're in a better position than many people right now but being hungry for more is always the best.

I tend to focus on fulfilling a higher purpose. Something that I return to every couple days/weeks or so. Continue to build on it

It was dope. I experienced and saw a lot of new places and things. Got out of my shell and met people and had interesting conversations.

Since the pandemic started, my life has been so routinized, and it’s driving me crazy. Today was my first full day back and I woke up and I didn’t know what to do. I have all these “shoulds” in my head and todo lists. But there is nothing motivating me to work on them when I don’t need to really.

I could wake up and lay a whole schedule down and be super productive, and what’s it for at the end of the day? Or I could do what I did today which Was just lie on my couch and which tv and go on my phone the whole time. And then the day is over. What’s the point of this type of living? I feel so dissatisfied but I also don’t f***ing know what would satisfy me

My job wouldn't allow me to work fully remote in a foreign country and my health has taken a massive dive this past year. But honestly, go look into it. Meeting different people, different cultures and seeing new things is the best

In the exact same situation, traveling and working remote too. Idk what to do either, feels like I got the life I wanted way too quick

I see. I wish you the best with your health. Thank you fam, I will.

S*** is that what it is?

Or is it this thing

Gotta branch out and try new things to see what works for you. Traveling is definitely great to escape the normal. Rather you are in a financially good spot or bad, the same daily routines will make you dread waking up every morning. But the benefit to having a little money to spare is being able to shake up that routine at your own will.

Which of these needs do you think are not being met?

That's dope. Ofc, today is a wash, kinda like a b2b in the league, that second night is usually a stretch for the teams focus. Overall, you're gettin the consistency down and engrained which is major. I hear u though, what. is. next!?

You have stability set out. Time to grow it seems, I would make the 3 most ambitious goals whether in career, life, hobbies etc. and go all gas no breaks. Buy real estate, travel abroad etc.

I don’t think it’s linear for me, it’s a bit of everything

You’re right, s***. This is motivating me 😤

The nba thread is a the wild Wild West, you can’t take anything posted there seriously…

focus on your health while you can and its still possible for you to pick up good habits and treat early stuff so it wont be a bother in the future. not to dismiss your concerns but once youre out of your 'existential' mid 20s phase you'll be thinking about that way more often

im on it now that im fully remote in another city and my contract will be extended in Jan. actually would require you to be in one place for a while but if you can and its no rush this would be my suggestion. also 26 btw

yes i would say follow your feeling there. go traveling for sure. i wanna do that too. live a life that is full of new experiences and youre gonna be happy that you lived it that way. i think traveling is good for that