WHEN A CHICK YOU TALKING TO IS CONSTANTLY ASKING OTHER PPL THAT KNOW YOU FOR "TEA" ON YOU

ive never experienced this tbh

No

f***ing hate gossip and ppl know that about me so yeah thats prolly why they dont bring it up if they ever did ask for the dirt on me

Everybody wants to know everything

Honestly i don’t fully understand what you said but I do understand what you’re trying to say

And yeah those type of ppl you just distance yourself from or don’t engage

tough to word yk. but youre talking to a chick for a lil while, and she mentions once, twice, three times, about running into mutual friends of yall, and that she "asked for tea on you" if that makes more sense.

I’m an open book so it doesn’t really bother if people want to know more about me.

If someone asks me for the tea on someone else I usually just keep it as brief as possible and don’t try to give them any information that they might use to be judgmental. That way it doesn’t fall on me somehow.

yea i feel this. kinda same, from a personal perspective, i dont really have any red flags, but ive made some mistakes in relationships that i dont necessarily air out, but i think that is more or less fair.

Man what??

can you rephrase this i have no idea what you're trying to say

idk man imma delete it idk how to properly word it

I hear you, OP

WHEN A CHICK YOU TALKING TO IS CONSTANTLY ASKING OTHER PPL THAT KNOW YOU FOR "TEA" ON YOU

does that make any sense damn

Oh
This is some weirdo s*** I’ve never encountered. Do people really do this?

u still choosing to talk to her so

op edited the op but no op this has never happened to me

that's why i was selective in my wording. constantly isnt accurate, but yea chick im talking to rn just said she was tryna get some tea on me from someone she works with. i dont think anything of it.

Mutual connection as opposed to mutual friend really threw me off

She might be interested in you and is looking for red flags I don’t think it’s that serious.

that's never happened to me..

that i am, i dont think its an overly crazy thing to do

op you in highschool?

well its preciesly this. i just think that s*** stupid