OP doesn't have an ounce of playa in him. Did she call you a broke ass nigga?

If she on, ya'll on. Enjoy it. If you have this complex of being inferior to her because she's on then nigga work harder instead of tryna put her down. Most guys want their b**** to be doing something. Here you are tryna move on because she's improving her life. Ya'll life lol

This sounds more like the only thing you HAD to offer was your little bit of work, and now that hers eclipses yours you have nothing to offer and expect her to move on anyway. You tryna cut the cord before she does?

Idek how this could at all be looked at as a negative. She working at a strip club??

How about getting a second job instead of sitting in mommies house self sabotaging? The advantage of no bills means a nigga should be getting to the bag by all means, even working odd hours. Most school s*** is done online and if you do have mandatory attendance, nigga work nights.

You should be worried about her breaking up with you for being a lazy ass nigga waiting on others instead of chasing your own bag

F*** no lmao the more money we have the more fun s*** we can do together

You can’t be serious.

my girl got laid off two weeks ago, I feel so bad for her even tho her job was bullshit and they werent paying her right I dodged layoffs at my place by sheer luck earlier but some of my coworkers were out on their ass even tho they were real performers and all

job insecurity should be recognized as the #1 killer over sTrEsS and the reason why people dont live til old, that s*** destroys you on so many levels

Keeping the bills paid and having a 2 income household could never make a nigga like me insecure

Yes. My girl needs to be fully dependent on me so that way I can control her

OP really said:

I hate b****es that don’t have jobs.

Walked in with a girl that’s making triple what I’m making . What an entrance

This nigga got access to his girl all the time now (which is a conversation I’m sure y’all had about staying at home) and he’s insecure you’re successful? Dudes be focused on the wrong thing and really fumble the whole bag all the time

what is wrong with this website

we had been dating for almost 3 years and he broke up with me 2 weeks ago (started working in Feb) said we have to accept that things weren’t working out between us anymore. said he won’t ask me to wait for him but hopes we can find our way back if God wills it. Said he loved me. so on and so forth

Dating anyone who makes more than me is a dub in my book

Homeless women >

It’s 2023

Need me a bad b**** that make double my income and cook

Hell nah. Actually the opposite, My partner has a higher position and more hours than me. Which gives me time to focus on long term future goals for our family thus giving me more self esteem

This thread is definitely more bait than troll

Trust me fellas, you don't want a girlfriend with no hobbies and all the free time in the world

I’m sorry, I can tell you love him. Something similar happened to me. They get scared they won’t be enough for you at some point and it’s hard to get someone to see the alternative once they’ve emotionally decided. He needs proper professional help for his insecurities. Sadly, you can’t stop your life for the hope he grows into his potential or seeks therapy

Use this opportunity to go harder with your work and focus on yourself. Sorry this is happening

yea I agree but it's the most blatant bait and switch thread I've seen in a long ass time... so it's a troll to me. especially when the scenario is a leading question.

no one active in the relationship would post a thread like this.

And now that we've gotten more information, this thread is the equivalent of "why did he leave me? guys are so insecure lol" but disguised.