relationship ended 6 months ago, her choice - messy break up. But a nigga still healin, her parents were like my parents fr, so we were close - They asked me to lunch before they move to Tennessee foreva and I’m not sure if it’ll impede on my progress or not

Opinions or if y’all had a similar experience?

only if it was an amicable breakup

can't say i've had something similar tho

Don’t do it

maybe your ex is f***ing her life up right now without you
they probably want you to be a stabilizing force in her life now that they are moving

tell them to f*** off

have a threesome with them

Since you had a good relationship with them it sounds like they just wanna see you before they move away but if you’re uncomfortable with it they should understand

I just saw the car her mom used to drive us around in yesterday and had flashbacks/ nostalgia

surprised this wasnt the first reply lol

Very similar situation actually with the parents of a guy I was with for 5+ years and his mom filled the shoes of my own. I was also 6+ months healing and moving on, went anyway, felt pretty trapped and sad, the mom cried.

They weren’t moving but they had heard about my career aspirations (which she disapproved of) but at that point was none of their business. Was awkward and emotional and in hindsight I wouldn’t have gone despite my love for the fam.

I wouldn't do it OP. Your ex at least deserves her space back now that yall broke up. Any engaing with her parents is as close violation of her space as you can get.

Imagine breaking up with your ex on bad terms but your parents still try to have a relationship with them behind your back. I wouldn't be happy about that at all.

I would go out of curiosity but that’s not advice lol

My ass would go but what do you gain?

Depends on how bad the breakup was for you and who initiated it.

dont

same lol

Damn what were the aspirations?

I feel u. So you regret it then?

I went from a solid accounting career track to promoting (then years later co-organizing) hip hop events and eventually music festivals, etc

I'd go idk

Well, yeah, mostly because I was bamboozled by the career stuff mid-meal. But see, I was kinda hungry, they offered to take me out, and the whole sitting at a meal with my past (people like my parents but also my ex’s parents) kinda set me back in my healing and progress tbh. Plus my ex was unaware of the whole thing and was furious at them and furious at me for going…

i would go, especially if you prolly won't see em ever again, especially if they were nice to me
that's just me

i'd go but im weird

Id go. Rack up the dinner bill. Have them pay. And leave

Order lobster or steak