@plants Lowkey miss her folks fr—they showed me how a semi healthy family works, and that love was legit. But two years is two years, and I’m not tryna unlock old feelings or walk into some awkward-ass reunion.

Like… we all know the only reason why I know yall is ’cause I used to date their daughter. You really think we’re gonna act like that never happened? And if they invite me to the party, now I’m the ex who’s still showing up to family functions looking like I haven't moved on. Then I gotta spend the night dodging stares from her new dude if she’s got one.

Feels like no matter how you slice it, this could backfire. Would you still go?

Do you want actual advice or do you want attention

Just pretend you’re gay now

try to f*** the mom

you have nothing to lose OP. you can still love those people even if you’re not dating their daughter

it's the smiley at the end of your suggestion that made me laugh irl

i like the way you think

i feel you OP i wouldn't want to hurt their feelings since you really care about them, but it is a strange conflict of interests. it's kinda wild that they want to get lunch with you even tho you're their daughter's ex, if i was your ex i would feel like they were doing me dirty. bottom line tho if you fr feel like it will bring back feelings for your ex that you need to leave in the past, kindly decline. if you feel like you'll be chill and it'll just be nice to catch up with them, human to human, go for it

I don’t think I’d do it if it would make my ex feel weird

if she cheated don’t do it

Here’s the reality

It’s been years since you wrote this, and she likely had her years of partying and fun and riding d***s left and right.

Her parents want to reconnect likely because they feel you were a stabilizing force and a good guy.

Women like excitement, but married parents know excitement doesn’t go the distance.. Commitment and a steady head do.

I personally would not go, you don’t deserve to have grinded for years without her just now to link up and potentially reopen the door for her after she’s been a hoe.

meet up for a free meal and good convo

Damn

Nah. If we break up, you broke up with my parents too.

My mom still talks to my ex and it's frustrating as hell. Where is the loyalty?

this is wild. you must be a really cool dude

Just go bro

My ex girl fam loves me too, they wished I married her, they still want that to this day tbh

actual

If you’re this conflicted might as well just go

They're trying to keep you in circulation for her because they like you.

Go

idk personally i still love my ex and her family and we’re great friends we just couldn’t get on the same page there’s no hate on either end for us and i’m happy that she’s happily married now

Did you go two years ago to the lunch or nah

nah

End it bro, its over and weird