The only reason to add someone on social media would be to see what they like or what they post. Why is that such an important factor in a relationship that you'd break up with someone over it?

Nobody can answer the reverse question: What's so hard about adding her, if he has nothing to hide? He has nothing to lose by adding her

Maybe Frank wanted us to have these sort of conversations tho

Nothing is hard about adding her per se, but this reminds me of why you don't talk to the police. Why don't you want to talk to the police, if you don't have anything to hide?

Because I don't trust cops, and what they will do with that info. I'd trust my girlfriend if it's a normal Facebook account, there's nothing wild she can do with it. If I don't trust her enough, she's probably not even a girlfriend yet

Rent.
Free.

Would you want your girlfriend actively following all your posts on Ktt?

She probably left him because dudes who give off fake deep vibes end up being abusive later on in relationships.

Sure, but are people not allowed to have privacy within a relationship? If you'd like to keep privacy on social media that shouldn't make a difference if you're seeing someone everyday. I don't see how it's big enough of a deal that you would break up with them over it.

I guess this is the point of it, but by only showing us the guy's perspective, we kind of get into these arguments.

Maybe it's a general commentary on the state of miscommunication amplified by social media, distrust, the next song is "Close To You"

this the guy

has some cool songs

More question to ask:
Do you actively tell your girlfriend about all of your posts on ktt. Or does she even know you have a ktt account?

I guess the point is that such problems didn't even exist 20 years ago. With social media, we have new opportunities, but also new problems we have to deal with. 20, 30 years ago nobody had to care about double-texting, being left on read, someone ignoring you while posting on their story, not accepting your friend request, not liking your posts...as if relationships weren't hard enough already, we have an additional digital layer to deal with, creating all new mind games

if she sees my G&G it's a wrap

Maybe you have to deal with it if that's the sort of precedence that you're setting for yourself. I just don't see why people put so much into needing to be associated with each other on social media, go be with each other in real life not over the net, is that not what it's about at the end of the day?

I know it's not a fake accent that's why it's embarrassing guys putting a bad name on us frenchies

You can think that way, and SebastiAn clearly did, but it takes two to tango, and a lot of women care about social media, as did his ex-girlfriend, hence the discussion we're having...

From my perspective he doesn't seem to see the point of FB at all, you know, virtual thing

He was running a SpongeBob meme account through main so it was too embarrassing to add her

you’re bugging

be yourself nearly brings a tear to my eye

honestly if i asked my girl 2 follow me on ig and she straight up refused for no obvious reason, yea imma be weirded tf out and will definitely find her 2 be suspicious

That’s moving the goalpost. My girlfriend is not an active user on here so it doesn’t really make sense in a correlation. If she were on here though I’m not about to block her or hide my posts though

thats facts lol

if u cant even do something as small as following back on "fazebook" for ur partner than the relationship is either barely starting or its just garbage in general.

Its rlly a case of a dude choosing not to do a favor for his girl and justifying it with his bizarre psuedo-intellectual anti-technology beliefs. And honestly if u put ur weird ass baloney beliefs over ur significant other than thats rlly ur issue.