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Yo OP DONT TALK TO HER YET WAIT

I havent said anything but honestly i think im gonna end it she desrves a nigga whos mind is fully there and not a nigga whos battling s*** and tryna figure s*** out

Before talking to her, change YOUR behaviors. I am im a LTR and i understand what you mean although my situation ain’t as bad. I want a consistent schedule, diet, and to work hard towards my goals

Before you talk to her, start declining the weed, food, etc yourself. Lead by example and see her reaction. She probably assumes you’re completely okay with what’s going on. Communication is good but if you don’t try this first, it’s gonna seem as though you’re blaming her completely. Then the conversation isn’t gonna go as well

Oh damn

Ooooh. That explains it. Then don’t worry about it too much. Try to improve yourself so that you don’t cause her so much stress, but if you need to break it off, just do it. I wouldn’t advise it though, good women as you’ve described are hard to come by.

If you know you’re not going to be faithful then you need to end the relationship immediately. Don’t put her through that especially since it sounds like she genuinely cares for you.

you don’t like her and you definitely don’t love her, you just tolerate her presence. leave and find someone you actually like

Those are all reasonable issues but idk what cheating would solve

I like that op is being real wit himself

That being said if a month passes and we get another thread about the same shorty I aint gon stand for it

Damn

LMFAOO 🤝🤝🤝

BONG!

So how would I go about breaking up? For context:
We were casual friends before who were in the samle circles theres history there.

Good relationships are a marathon, weight fluctuates, happiness

Maybe talk to her about some of your qualms

As the relationship advances she will probably get less clingy as long as she has something going for herself

sorry to be blunt but i've been the girl in this situation. i liked the guy more than he liked me and that was it (he literally told me "you care about me more than i care about you" so definitely don't that haha). you don't feel suffocated when you actually love the person.

she deserves someone who wants her around. you need a girl who you actually like being around, not a girl that you don't mind being around.

i recommend you break up with her by telling her that you feel like you can't give her what she wants.

In person right?

if you feel like you need to break up, do it, but don’t break upon you truly love her and you have commitment issues (no judgement).

lol of course in person.

just communicate you can't be with her anymore

can't sugar coat this one, have to be direct

yes in person. i personally hate being broken up with in person though 'cause i always start crying lmao i'd prefer a phone call. at least do it at her house so you can leave right after but do not do it in public!!

i know exactly how you feel man. i chose to stay in the relationship which is nearing 4years now and honestly if i could go back id end it. Why? cuz u can boss yourself up faster being on your own than trying to balance your time between school, a side project, and being w a girl who wants to see u 3-4x a week which involves $$ spent on takeout, dates, etc. and i love my girl to death shes smart, hot, and amitious but when ur 21, in your prime, and tryna get a bag s*** is mentally hard fr. u lose a lot of time in a relationship. i really dont think guys should be ina serious relationship until like 24. thats just my opinion tho. God bless and good luck

also getting rid of your girl isnt gonna magically make u a better person. u still gotta do the self work which u can do with or without her