First time living alone, how to deal with loneliness

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  • Sep 22, 2022
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    aye cuh

    not tryna be funny but if you really think nothing said itt was a good suggestion it’s time you go see a therapist

    ik you're not trying to be funny just condescending, everyone should see a therapist you and me included

    I should've specified no good suggestions that work for me, the reason they're making suggestions is because they worked for them but I don't think they would for me as I just don't enjoy living alone

  • Sep 22, 2022
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    aye cuh

    no offense op but it just sounds to me like you don’t enjoy being alone with yourself which is a thing you should work on. you shouldn’t need to be around humans constantly for you to feel good about yourself. if anything, this thread gives me the impression that you already have a very active social life. so there really shouldn’t be no need for you to feel the way you do unless there’s some underlying issues

    I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh

  • Sep 22, 2022
    CKL TML

    Im down Lets plan something soon, maybe autumn vacation?

    Sounds good

  • Sep 22, 2022
    Scratchin Mamba

    I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh

    This is me to a tee
    I just like the feeling of knowing someone else is in the same space.
    Like I would be totally fine with never interacting with the person but having them there would be a comfort

  • Sep 22, 2022
    yesac

    ik you're not trying to be funny just condescending, everyone should see a therapist you and me included

    I should've specified no good suggestions that work for me, the reason they're making suggestions is because they worked for them but I don't think they would for me as I just don't enjoy living alone

    so then there is no suggestion for you other than to move in with multiple people if that’s what you need. doesn’t mean that no one itt offered good advice. if anything, that’s condescending. by the way i am seeing a therapist for these reasons

  • Sep 22, 2022
    Scratchin Mamba

    I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh

    i see. how big is your apartment? i read somewhere that the size can affect your mood as well. like it’s definitely different being alone in an apartment/house that was meant for multiple people

  • Sep 22, 2022
    Scratchin Mamba

    but fr tho u gotta come and one time also w the whole gang @FlyHiii @thankmelater

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    Sep 22, 2022
    COWBOY WAYNE

    Get a gf then you’ll love being alone

  • Sep 22, 2022
    COWBOY WAYNE

    Get a gf then you’ll love being alone

    All those likes on this post and i cant relate i bagged a real 1

  • Sep 22, 2022

    But @Scratchin_Bandit find a new hobby you actually like and get invested in it

  • Aug 21, 2023
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    @op almost a year later how are you feeling about this?

  • Aug 21, 2023
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    Vox

    @op almost a year later how are you feeling about this?

    Much better that feeling of loneliness was just temporary to get adjusted

    Been keeping myself busy and most days i've rly only been home for breakfast and maybe dinner and sleep lol

    That's a bit too much as well, been a busy ass year the busiest of my life tbh. Figuring out how to find a balance so i dont burn out

    But it's been great tho, i feel BLESSED

    Thank u for asking king

  • Aug 21, 2023

    it's def. an adjustment period. 1 year in, you feel great about it. i love the peace and quiet, and it feels so liberating.

  • Aug 21, 2023
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    Hit up college parties and drown yoself in p****
    S*** wake up in a sorority

  • Aug 21, 2023

    I been living on my own for a few months now and I for sure relate to this a lot, I think the toughest moments to live alone are when you're sick. I had COVID and it was so demoralizing to have to lay in bed and know if you don't get your ass up you ain't eating lol.

    But these moments help you build indepedence I guess so taking it in stride, glad everything working out @Scratchin_Bandit .

  • Aug 21, 2023
    Jamian Minato

    Hit up college parties and drown yoself in p****
    S*** wake up in a sorority

    easier said than done

  • Aug 21, 2023

    I know I'll never live alone because of this

    I'd rather live with my parents than be alone

  • Aug 21, 2023
    TheRealSB

    Been living alone for years now

    Honestly its great and the peace is amazing

    Este wey. Are you still living in Mexico?

  • Aug 21, 2023
    Scratchin Mamba

    Much better that feeling of loneliness was just temporary to get adjusted

    Been keeping myself busy and most days i've rly only been home for breakfast and maybe dinner and sleep lol

    That's a bit too much as well, been a busy ass year the busiest of my life tbh. Figuring out how to find a balance so i dont burn out

    But it's been great tho, i feel BLESSED

    Thank u for asking king

    No problem and I love to hear it

    But yes, please find a way to take more time for yourself to be peaceful 🙏🏾💕🙏🏾

  • Aug 21, 2023

    My only solution is get a pet but even then it doesn’t help the crippling loneliness. I suggest stay actively doing things, anything.

  • Aug 21, 2023

    Get a dog

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