not tryna be funny but if you really think nothing said itt was a good suggestion it’s time you go see a therapist
ik you're not trying to be funny just condescending, everyone should see a therapist you and me included
I should've specified no good suggestions that work for me, the reason they're making suggestions is because they worked for them but I don't think they would for me as I just don't enjoy living alone
no offense op but it just sounds to me like you don’t enjoy being alone with yourself which is a thing you should work on. you shouldn’t need to be around humans constantly for you to feel good about yourself. if anything, this thread gives me the impression that you already have a very active social life. so there really shouldn’t be no need for you to feel the way you do unless there’s some underlying issues
I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh
I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh
This is me to a tee
I just like the feeling of knowing someone else is in the same space.
Like I would be totally fine with never interacting with the person but having them there would be a comfort
ik you're not trying to be funny just condescending, everyone should see a therapist you and me included
I should've specified no good suggestions that work for me, the reason they're making suggestions is because they worked for them but I don't think they would for me as I just don't enjoy living alone
so then there is no suggestion for you other than to move in with multiple people if that’s what you need. doesn’t mean that no one itt offered good advice. if anything, that’s condescending. by the way i am seeing a therapist for these reasons
I mean could be, but i was cool being alone before, like being home alone wouldn't bother me. I think it's smth specific to living alone and having the whole place to myself tbh
i see. how big is your apartment? i read somewhere that the size can affect your mood as well. like it’s definitely different being alone in an apartment/house that was meant for multiple people
but fr tho u gotta come and one time also w the whole gang @FlyHiii @thankmelater
Get a gf then you’ll love being alone
Get a gf then you’ll love being alone
All those likes on this post and i cant relate i bagged a real 1
But @Scratchin_Bandit find a new hobby you actually like and get invested in it
@op almost a year later how are you feeling about this?
Much better that feeling of loneliness was just temporary to get adjusted
Been keeping myself busy and most days i've rly only been home for breakfast and maybe dinner and sleep lol
That's a bit too much as well, been a busy ass year the busiest of my life tbh. Figuring out how to find a balance so i dont burn out
But it's been great tho, i feel BLESSED
Thank u for asking king
it's def. an adjustment period. 1 year in, you feel great about it. i love the peace and quiet, and it feels so liberating.
I been living on my own for a few months now and I for sure relate to this a lot, I think the toughest moments to live alone are when you're sick. I had COVID and it was so demoralizing to have to lay in bed and know if you don't get your ass up you ain't eating lol.
But these moments help you build indepedence I guess so taking it in stride, glad everything working out @Scratchin_Bandit .
Hit up college parties and drown yoself in p****
S*** wake up in a sorority
easier said than done
I know I'll never live alone because of this
I'd rather live with my parents than be alone
Been living alone for years now
Honestly its great and the peace is amazing
Este wey. Are you still living in Mexico?
Much better that feeling of loneliness was just temporary to get adjusted
Been keeping myself busy and most days i've rly only been home for breakfast and maybe dinner and sleep lol
That's a bit too much as well, been a busy ass year the busiest of my life tbh. Figuring out how to find a balance so i dont burn out
But it's been great tho, i feel BLESSED
Thank u for asking king
No problem and I love to hear it
But yes, please find a way to take more time for yourself to be peaceful 🙏🏾💕🙏🏾
My only solution is get a pet but even then it doesn’t help the crippling loneliness. I suggest stay actively doing things, anything.