@op you’ve just described the overwhelming majority of all my friendships. that’s why i have taken a more transactional approach to friendship. it is what it is, we grown now

Im still here boi

Oh god

it’s a lot of factors

some people just need time and might be going through s***

now if you never hear from him again, you got your answer lmao

but one of my homies disappeared for like 6 months, more like a brother. no responses, just straight ghost

then one day he said he’s sorry and he was in the depths and couldn’t even say he can’t talk

now he asked me if he can just call to call years later. some people just need time to grow within themselves. anxiety and depression is real, even towards the ones closest to you. also like someone above said, friendships today that aren’t reciprocated in the heaviness you desire are transactional friendships and this is probably the hardest to accept cause they won’t show up unless there’s a purpose.

salute and sorry you going through that with your boy

it’s a part of growing up. but you’ll find that one homie where there won’t be overthinking