Girl im dating keeps in contact with ex

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  • HURRY UP sab 🧔🏻
    Feb 9
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    WRU

    Also i almost had to call police on him cuz he found out where i lived and wanted to fight with me

    oh youre in a double whammy because theyre DEFINITELY setting your house and car on fire if you decide to break up with her

    maybe move to a different state while shes away?

    he should just text the ex “she’s all yours bro” and leave it at that

  • she only has a trauma bond with him.

    you gon end up having a trauma bond with her

  • OP gon end up like this

  • ball up top, OP

  • How is this even a question

  • get tf outta there

  • Gotta be trolling

  • Mr America

    Me and this girl have been dating for almost 2 months and things are getting serious. But recently found out alot of info. She told me she was in an abusive relationship but didnt tell me they were still talking. I found this out because he messaged me asking for a threesome because apparently he talked with her about it and she liked the idea. She denied it when i asked her but he showed me screenshots of her saying she likes to be single and flirt and different screenshots of them flirting thru text. And he was still taking her to and from work. Admittedly this pissed me off so i called him and cussed him out but she didnt want me to. She claimed to love me and that she only has a trauma bond with him. So she is going no contact with him. Also i almost had to call police on him cuz he found out where i lived and wanted to fight with me. I didnt because of her once again. But now i see in her phone she has atleast 4 30 min to an hour long phone calls with him recently, and texts about how when he blows up in music he wants to fly her out to show how much he changed and she agreed. I really do like her and have strong feelings. And she says the same about me and claims its just a trauma bond. How do i go about discussing this with her?

    who gives a af go on tinder bumble etc and find a plan b incase s*** goes sideways

  • OP will learn a valuable lesson from this

  • Feb 9
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    Can you ask her for his soundcloud or something. I want to see if he has the potential to blow up in music.

  • Feb 9
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    End it

    I’ve been in a relationship like this and I ended it about 1.5 years in - perhaps too late.

    In the end she married him

    And her situation sounds nothing like your girls. End it.

  • Humiliation ritual thread

  • OP got off to this thread

  • Mr America

    I called and cussed him out and wanted to fight but she told me not to cuz itll make things worse. But he threatened my mom and pulled up to my apartment somehow and took pic as proof while i was gone

    Why tf would u wanna beat someone up over a girl
    If it costs u that much effort, f*** that b****

  • Mr America

    I feel like im the upgrade. Im 6’2, muscular. Hes 5’8 and fat

    Bro trust me, to toxic folks none of that matters
    They just wanna hit, ego boost, feel the thrill

    Am a model, am a damn celebrity these days, my f***in ex cheated on me too with bums and she was the one that even predicted me to be a "charismatic womanizing celeb"
    SHE KNEW WHAT SHE HAD, BUT DIDNT CARE, CAUSE THEY DONT CARE
    they're broken man

    Actually it sucks even more when they cheat on u with bummy ass losers
    But that just means her core and soul are as bummy

  • That girl (and her ex) are disrespecting the heck out of you. If she doesn't cut him off, you cut her off.

  • 2 months is nothing bro

    Run

  • Mr America

    He look like f***ing e40

    He probably push pills

    Or move that Cha-Cha

  • Nah but seriously @op cut her off ASAP

  • BLACK ☭
    Feb 10
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    @op what did you do?

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