I moved city a while ago and since I've been here i've made no friends I literally never go out and socialise. First time in my life where I've never been able to hit people up

Work colleagues don't count because I never fw them outside of work, they already settled here.

Anyone got any advice on how to go out and meet new people? I'm just stuck on discord with my friends from home and I see my GF on the weekends (usually)

Last one rules out the easiest method/motivation to get out there...

Might wanna give those colleagues a chance, but for networking reasons. Could meet some dope people through your co-workers.

Join a local club of your interest ?Sports ? Nobody has to be lonely man

There hasn't been a chance to do anything outside work. I tried suggesting something within my first week starting but it never went anywhere.

Everyone in the office is completely settled with their family and friends. It's just been a pain to organise anything.

Another problem is, work at work all we talk about is work. So like I dont really know any of them like that.

I feel mad awkward joining something though idk

Like i've never had problems making friends during school/college/uni and even at my other jobs before I graduated but this time its tough and lonely asf.

Spend most of my time browsing forums and playing Cod

Being alone is all I know

I'm completely alone. I've been living a hermit's life for a while apart from a few dates.

I've realized that this is the lifestyle that's the least stressful and the most fulfilling for me. It's certainly not perfect and sometimes I feel isolated and lonely but socializing is much worse imo Only exception are gfs

VLONE

When I moved out to the Bay Area. I ain’t know a soul. I just doubled down on work and future plans. Unless you go to Oakland, there’s very few Black people in the Bay; especially East Bay. The only shortys I bagged were the few Black joints I seen there but it didn’t go anywhere because I was already in dolo mode.

But once you get used to being alone and comfortable it’s cool

I been alone before & since birth :3

no one else can beat this

Realized by lifestyle I’m a golfer, with that it’s better for me to work and walk alone (unless I have a caddy) than to be around and act as if this is a team sport

I lived alone half a year in a new city now it’s the only way I can feel comfortable. Living alone is the best.

Donny Darko s*** op

Go to the bar and get drunk

welcome to my world nigga

The first few weeks moving to LA I felt really alone. It's crazy how you can live in one of the biggest cities in the world and still feel extremely lonely.

What

bro this is so CAP

i live in antioch and there's plenty of black people what are u talking about

That's everyone on KTT, I'm here by choice tho

Yep, no real friends that want to kick it anymore. Drove a lot of people away my life is s***. Constantly in a spiral of depression and self doubt so its hard to make new friends idk what i’ll do

Sounds like you’re not embracing where you live because your heart is tied to where you came from.

dam.

South* Bay my fault. Plenty of niggas in East Bay lol