So I’m in a bit of a depressive state because I thought a girl liked me and it seems like she doesn’t. In my head I’m pretty much over it but my mood is really down and when my mind wanders I start ruminating on all the s*** that made me think she likes me. No matter what I do, I can’t seem to get rid of these thoughts. Today, I woke up, shaved, played videogames, cleaned my room, went shopping, went on a walk, cooked three meals and went to the gym. But at the end of the day, I’m still thinking about her.

So basically my question is how do I break out of this? I want to put my phone away but it’s hard to disconnect because sometimes people need to contact me. Anything else I can try?

I should mention I work with this girl so it’s hard to completely stop thinking about her when I see her like 3-4 times a week.

i thought this was gonna be sumn life threatening nigga this is on YOU

just gotta give it time dog

meaningless hookups help as a distraction too lol

Come on, not everything has to be suicidal s*** man

Time

I guess you’re right with just waiting but damn it’s taking a while

I don’t have game like that for hookups

Help yourself brother, here's a start

start chasing the next girl @op

was in a similar place but i was able to move on by finding other girls right after

Just depersonalize ur thoughts bro ur just thinking without realizing you’re thinking

time and listening to a bunch of weeknd and future is my prescription

also just saying if you choose to let s*** like this make you jaded it stops being a problem in the future lol

do the things you love, life is too short for hoes to be taking it all up

I can vibe to it but afterwards the feelings come back

I’ve had after hours on repeat lol

What do you mean depersonalize your thoughts

king that was what finally made me forget about my ex lol

I could never be jaded I’m too much of a romantic

d**** are a good answer too @op
jk lol please dont

I’m just gonna get super drunk this weekend instead

Should be better soon. Give yourself time to recover

it might take a few weeks, just keep doing things you enjoy these things take time. In the end this all won't even be a blip on your radar.

Use your phone honestly but also reflect.

Worked for me when I was in a complicating place but It's an odd thing to suggest lol