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  • Aug 26, 2021

    Meet new women

  • Aug 26, 2021
    Grif

    Come on, not everything has to be suicidal s*** man

    sorry bro been a lot of suicidal mfs in life sxn lately

  • Aug 26, 2021
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    Twist Your Cap

    Worked for me when I was in a complicating place but It's an odd thing to suggest lol

    i said jk just in case op does it its not my fault

  • WINTER 🌨️
    Aug 26, 2021

    pics?

  • Tadow 🥀
    Aug 26, 2021

    Stay busy, let time pass and eventually you'll forget all about her after meeting another woman who will do it to you all over again

  • Aug 26, 2021
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    XenoMorph

    i said jk just in case op does it its not my fault

    nothing gets you out fo your head like a few 40's

  • Aug 26, 2021
    Twist Your Cap

    nothing gets you out fo your head like a few 40's

    nothing gets you out your head like percocet and weed

  • Aug 26, 2021
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    Well to let you know and help you…just know that chances are she’s not really thinking about you

    So stop letting her live in your mind

  • Aug 26, 2021
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    PNW

    Well to let you know and help you…just know that chances are she’s not really thinking about you

    So stop letting her live in your mind

    My thought process reading this was

    “Yeah you’re right”
    “Damn that sucks”
    “Unless maybe…”

    So yeah I’ve got a long way to go still

  • Aug 26, 2021
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    She asked what my star sign was and we’re compatible… but I don’t think she’s into me… idk man

  • Aug 26, 2021
    Grif

    My thought process reading this was

    “Yeah you’re right”
    “Damn that sucks”
    “Unless maybe…”

    So yeah I’ve got a long way to go still

    Point is…stop wrecking your mood over her. Just continue with your daily life and whatever happens, it happens. Trust me I’ve gone through the same s*** over a girl who wasn’t into me either but I got over it the moment I knew she wasn’t into me and all the emotions I went through was just a waste of time and energy

    Stop stressing yourself so much over her

  • Grif

    She asked what my star sign was and we’re compatible… but I don’t think she’s into me… idk man

    putting faith in astrology s*** is lowkey a red flag imo

    literally just determined by whenever your parents decided to f***

  • Aug 26, 2021
    Grif

    What do you mean depersonalize your thoughts

    You are identifying with them therefore they dictate your entire mood and attitude. Just allow them to be there without being swept up by them

  • Aug 26, 2021

    Aint nothin like some p**** when you’re going through somethin
    Just called a bad b**** said i’m going through somethin
    -Dwayne Michael Carter III

  • Aug 27, 2021
    Grif

    So I’m in a bit of a depressive state because I thought a girl liked me and it seems like she doesn’t. In my head I’m pretty much over it but my mood is really down and when my mind wanders I start ruminating on all the s*** that made me think she likes me. No matter what I do, I can’t seem to get rid of these thoughts. Today, I woke up, shaved, played videogames, cleaned my room, went shopping, went on a walk, cooked three meals and went to the gym. But at the end of the day, I’m still thinking about her.

    So basically my question is how do I break out of this? I want to put my phone away but it’s hard to disconnect because sometimes people need to contact me. Anything else I can try?

    Lay the bricks. Talk to 5 women a day for 8 weeks. Not for you to hit on or get numbers but to get comfortable talking with people. Bro I'm talking from the elderly lady you assist walking across the street to someone picking out their groceries at the deli. Having a general convo w a cashier or anyone man. The most basic simple conversations but you're building repetition and meeting new people at the same time.

    You're getting outta your head by being authentic.

  • Aug 27, 2021

    Stop worrying about her and do what you need to do lol

  • Aug 27, 2021
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    Did you try asking her out?

    Tbh asking out a coworker isn't a good move, from experience, and it's for the exact reason you stated. If they say no it's hard to get over, if things go south it's hard to get over. Might seem like a good idea in theory but grind it out on those apps fam ain't s*** out there at the workplace

    This doesn't apply for a seasonal job however or a temp gig. But if you're gonna be working there indefinitely, don't ask out a coworker.

  • Aug 27, 2021
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    UpholdTimMosley

    Did you try asking her out?

    Tbh asking out a coworker isn't a good move, from experience, and it's for the exact reason you stated. If they say no it's hard to get over, if things go south it's hard to get over. Might seem like a good idea in theory but grind it out on those apps fam ain't s*** out there at the workplace

    This doesn't apply for a seasonal job however or a temp gig. But if you're gonna be working there indefinitely, don't ask out a coworker.

    Nah I didn’t explicitly but anytime I tried to show more interest in her she would get really dry and act disinterested. It’s just a part time job but I might be working here for a while so I don’t want to f*** it up.

    I’m not on any of those dating apps, it just doesn’t feel right to me. I’d rather meet someone in person. Maybe I’m being dumb though.

  • Grif

    Nah I didn’t explicitly but anytime I tried to show more interest in her she would get really dry and act disinterested. It’s just a part time job but I might be working here for a while so I don’t want to f*** it up.

    I’m not on any of those dating apps, it just doesn’t feel right to me. I’d rather meet someone in person. Maybe I’m being dumb though.

    met my gf on hinge and tomorrow makes 1 year since we first met. don't write it off

  • Aug 28, 2021

    Gotta say it’s been slowly getting easier but tonight has been rough. I saw her today and was able to keep my cool and remain detached but part of me was desperate for her attention. I have a long way to go before I can fully move on.

  • Aug 28, 2021
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    What’s tethering you is her not knowing you want her in that way. Once you’re open to her about that and she either accepts or rejects, you’ll be free of it

    Plus it’s better to be like this with a girl you been f***ing rather than one you haven’t f***ed

  • Aug 28, 2021

    It's just a moment in time, it'll pass

  • Aug 28, 2021

    If I really need to disconnect I turn my phone off and tell everyone I'm going off the grid for a few days, and I let them know when I plan on turning my phone back on.

  • Aug 28, 2021

    I don't know the answers because I think it varies from person to person, but for me journaling over tea and trying to focus on other things that will help me get to my goals helps