Also when she's acting like a piece of s*** that is who she is. You're not in love with her. You're in love with the potential of your relationship. You probably wish the person that you first met would come back. But that person is not real she never was she had a mask on and she has revealed her true self to you now.
Also when she's acting like a piece of s*** that is who she is. You're not in love with her. You're in love with the potential of your relationship. You probably wish the person that you first met would come back. But that person is not real she never was she had a mask on and she has revealed her true self to you now.
Rt
Harsh but golden truth
Reminds me of this Spanish joint I used to mess with, b**** was all over the damn place, crazy ass hell but the s***was so good and she grew weed so it was a dope plug to have in that regard. But I Finally just had to leave her alone because she would come up to my work and everything, post suicidal messages one second and be joyful the next, s*** was a damn mess. So I can definitely related to your situation my g, but sometimes you just gotta drop that s***, especially if she wild like that.
Trust your gut you already know what to do. It's doesn't feel right because it isn't.
Yep, I gotta get the hell away from her for my own sake.
The worst part is she presented herself as completely normal and a “perfect” girl. She liked the s*** I did, she was interested in everything I was, she made me feel like a king. She would tell me how handsome she thought I was, buy me s***, do whatever I want. The s***was crazy good. Then a. Flip switch happened
Now she makes me feel so low then she’ll make me feel high again
Then back to low
Yep, the first time she did it I had a full blown panic attack, started blowing up her phone hopped in my car and drove to her apartment. Of course she was completely fine.
She’s threatened to murk herself at least 4 times cause of me
Last time she did it I said you not gonna do s*** shut up
At least you had a car. I ran for 10 mins wearing slippers, shorts, and a t-shirt in the middle of a Canadian winter the first time it happened to me
Yep, I gotta get the hell away from her for my own sake.
The worst part is she presented herself as completely normal and a “perfect” girl. She liked the s*** I did, she was interested in everything I was, she made me feel like a king. She would tell me how handsome she thought I was, buy me s***, do whatever I want. The s***was crazy good. Then a. Flip switch happened
Now she makes me feel so low then she’ll make me feel high again
Then back to low
Bruh you're dating Gloria trillo from the sopranos run for the hills. I was in a similar situation a year ago, I stayed for way too long I'm all f***ed up and still recovering. That b**** is passing her trauma onto you because she hasn't learn how to process it. F*** that, bounce.
She even fake liked prince to please me.
I told her he was my favorite artist of all time and how much I loved his music. she said she wanted to listen to him with me.
We did and she acted like she liked it. It meant a lot to me cause I never had a girl who wanted to like what I liked before. Was completely interested in it.
Then when she got mad a few weeks later she turns around and tells me Prince is s*** and she thought it was garbage
I wanted to kick her out of my car.
She even fake liked prince to please me.
I told her he was my favorite artist of all time and how much I loved his music. she said she wanted to listen to him with me.
We did and she acted like she liked it. It meant a lot to me cause I never had a girl who wanted to like what I liked before. Was completely interested in it.
Then when she got mad a few weeks later she turns around and tells me Prince is s*** and she thought it was garbage
I wanted to kick her out of my car.
It's called mirroring b****es with bpd do this. They fake interest in things you like to get you to like them they have no sense of self. When she's bouncing on the next man's d*** watch how her personality and interest change these b****es are beyond predictable.
It makes you feel like she's your soulmate omg were made for each other she likes the same things I like... Just another tactic to manipulate you.
Yep, I gotta get the hell away from her for my own sake.
The worst part is she presented herself as completely normal and a “perfect” girl. She liked the s*** I did, she was interested in everything I was, she made me feel like a king. She would tell me how handsome she thought I was, buy me s***, do whatever I want. The s***was crazy good. Then a. Flip switch happened
Now she makes me feel so low then she’ll make me feel high again
Then back to low
yeah i had the same s*** for a long ass time too... f*** people who act like that man, i cant stand all that fake s*** it only brings more pain, how do they not see it
yeah i had the same s*** for a long ass time too... f*** people who act like that man, i cant stand all that fake s*** it only brings more pain, how do they not see it
They can't see it. They see everything in black and white. If you make them feel guilt or shame they'll run away and go f*** someone else's life up.
They can't see it. They see everything in black and white. If you make them feel guilt or shame they'll run away and go f*** someone else's life up.
yeaa thats exactly what happened too man, i was tired of her giving me the bullshit so i just pointed it out every time so by the end of it we used to fight and make up like every day
i pray i never have to meet another one like that
You're taking about a mentally ill person with the emotional iq of a toddler. Bpd is a lack of ability to regulate emotions. They throw tantrums just like toddlers someone in there life taught them that that's okay that's how you move that's how you get the things you want. And people like op Enable them.
yeaa thats exactly what happened too man, i was tired of her giving me the bullshit so i just pointed it out every time so by the end of it we used to fight and make up like every day
i pray i never have to meet another one like that
Bruh your past experience have made you well equipped to deal with any c*** like that who comes your way. You now have the ability to recognize red flags you couldn't in the past. It's important to identify our flaws and look at the role we played in tolerating this behavior or enabling it so we don't make the same mistakes again.
Honestly I have lil to no tolerance for this type of s*** now a days. I'll f***ing walk away in the middle of a f***ing date if I sniff some s*** like this. But know that anyone can fall victim to someone like this. These people don't present themselves to you as a piece of s*** they put up a front they present themselves to you how they think you would like to see them.
Bruh you're dating Gloria trillo from the sopranos run for the hills. I was in a similar situation a year ago, I stayed for way too long I'm all f***ed up and still recovering. That b**** is passing her trauma onto you because she hasn't learn how to process it. F*** that, bounce.
How did you get out and resist all attempts of contact?
I feel like if I break up with her she’ll level up the craziness man.
I just wish when I had first met her I only said hi and kept it f***ing moving.
How did you get out and resist all attempts of contact?
I feel like if I break up with her she’ll level up the craziness man.
I just wish when I had first met her I only said hi and kept it f***ing moving.
Follow me back I'll pm you
The crazy thing is I feel like if I told everyone in our personal lives how she acts I don’t think anyone would believe me. She already had told people I’m scum after she found out I was f***ing w other girls. Yet she was never my girl, I didn’t owe her s***. Maybe I was wrong idk
She’s in a sorority, has a bunch of friends, has a bunch of Instagram followers, has money, nice car, das owns a good business, her mom is a nurse practitioner
I’m a quiet chill dude with a small circle who just does my rotc s***, play video games, watches movies, listen to music, and spend a lot of time alone.
I feel like the odds are stacked against me and if I leave her the few friends I have will side with her side.
I don’t want to have to reveal stuff like the screenshots cause I want to take the high road and just dead it but I feel like she gonna go nuclear and I’m gonna have to go nuclear back
Always having to apologize and kiss her f***ing ass I’m sick of it
I’m on the edge of losing it
I’d rather be solo with no hoes then ever have to deal with a woman like this ever again.
She acted insane and has the nerve to make me the bad one Everytime
How do guys live like this
You know you can call her and say it’s over in a very forceful manner and tell her to f*** off, right? Then you block the number, there’s nothing more to it
Can you explain why you haven’t done this I’m fascinated by guys who will let a woman ruin their life because they don’t want to have an awkward 2 minute phone call