Nov 16, 2023
BRAVEOk so as a nigga who’s tried to kill himself and felt worthless/ugly/unlovable/blahblahblah this that the third and 97 problems that were all b****es, it’s fine if you feel worthless. Hell I said felt but I’m just now finally coming out the other side of those feelings. So f*** it, just let it be and try to find the true flaws that make you feel like that.
But #2 (and this is the big one): stop trying to make yourself feel better by pretending your woman problems are general self-worth problems. Admit to yourself it’s no more than that - cause let’s be real it isn’t, and probably isn’t with most of us young men who have expressed our feelings with this similar vague and figurative language we all use
And that’s the big one cause when you do that, now you’re tricking your brain into making your problems seem more daunting and scary than they are - thus you’re more emotionally involved than you need to be. It’s like doing push-ups with your hands flat on the ground then calling yourself weak for barely hitting 20 clean pushups when in reality if you didn’t put so much weight on your damn wrists you would’ve hit 52 clean. But not to get carried away
Basically, just chill, say f*** it and start really a***yzing and doing detective work on both the woman problems and the actual problems you should be taking more seriously; not saying you aren’t but however much you are now?
Good luck op, you got this. Where your demons try to drown you, build a well
you’re a pmf. who made you feel ugly?
this a real ass post tho fr. i’m going through similar things and glad i came across this
keep your head up @op
Nov 17, 2023·2 repliestake lsd
Nov 17, 2023
Yakuza Boydetach events from your self worth. life will always throw curveballs, be prepared to play and enjoy just existing and having the privilege to experience life
p good idea here
Nov 17, 2023Do things
Nov 17, 2023"I can get therapy I guess but they’re only after my wallet and don’t feel that genuine compared to a family or lover."
I feel like most of yall dont even understand the point of therapy lol
Theyre not suppose to be like your family or lover - thats not even their purpose
- Nov 17, 2023
Anyways by doing something constructive for yourself.
And come to terms to with what happened. Either by understanding why it happened and try to make it better, or understand why it happened and accept it for what it is.
Nov 17, 2023By finding your worth.
Nov 17, 2023·1 reply
Skateboard JI’m not being ironic either, I saw noticeable improvement
i miss my d*** tho fr
bh0stman ☣️Nov 17, 2023If you actually just sit with your thoughts and ask yourself what you want to change and how can you change it the answers literally reveal themselves
Life is all cycles and habits, make it better you already know what to do
Nov 17, 2023zelll bl0ndedtake lsd
Real
Nov 17, 2023Be patient. Things will fall into place over time if u live in the moment and focus on improving yourself
- Nov 17, 2023mangotflu
i miss my d*** tho fr
Can’t relate
Nov 17, 2023
DumpKingYou are worth a lot you just aren’t aware of it.
Has it ever occurred to you that if you died today it would hurt a lot of people you know?
It would hurt them because your very existence has been a positive
experience for them.
Nov 17, 2023@op I feel you on the consistency bit. Just make sure you've got your loved ones on speed dial for that morale boost. Not to vent to them, but to remind yourself that your pulse is beating for a reason.
Nov 17, 2023·1 reply
GhomaMy self-esteem and confidence has been damaged because of the events that occurred over the past month. I can’t help but feel that god loves to pull pranks on me. Almost like my dreams and hopes are meant to be shattered every time.
Please, I just need help and motivation to continue going. I can get therapy I guess but they’re only after my wallet and don’t feel that genuine compared to a family or lover.
You got the idea of therapy so wrong.
- Nov 17, 2023zelll bl0nded
take lsd
Oh yes let's tell a depressed person to eat a strong psychedelic, that's never ended poorly
MDMA would be drastically better, ketamine above all
Nov 17, 2023i’ve seen so many people suffer from misfortune and bounce back and so many people suffer from things far worse than whatever im going that i tell myself “what’s a bad year when im gonna be living a bad life”
Nov 18, 2023