Knx

2y

ya dont need d**** for this.

fashion killa

2y

yeah, i know attachment is the root of all suffering

now I've got to figure out how to love without attachment

Invader HIM

2y

This or shrooms.

Either gonna find peace with yourself how you are now or experience a revelation and make change.

oat milk

2y

did shrooms today and spent 2 hours like this waiting for it to end

rise zero

2y

You cant force yourself to care people will enter and exit your life all the time, that's just the way it goes

Someone becoming important to you is just something that happens naturally. If that NEVER happens then I dunno, talk to a therapist or something.

oat milk

2y

did shrooms today and spent 2 hours like this waiting for it to end

RRRBBB

2y

This is terrible advice

@op making connections is an ACTIVE effort for the most part. People dont just come into your life, you both do things that create connections with eachother.

I cant speak on the ADHD part, id suggest talking to your primary care about referral to a therapist if thats comfortable for you

Discipline and effort is an everyday thing that makes it easier to care. Its hard at first, but then it becomes muscle memory. You obviously care about the people around you, and noticed that it isnt what you want. That is already covering a lot of ground.

Asking people how they are, expressing yourself, checking in on others. It builds a foundation that gets stronger everyday. Like that bojack quote, the hard part is doing it everyday but it gets easier

rise zero

2y

Nah its good advice. OP is just in a weird mindset thats all.

RRRBBB

2y

This is terrible advice

@op making connections is an ACTIVE effort for the most part. People dont just come into your life, you both do things that create connections with eachother.

I cant speak on the ADHD part, id suggest talking to your primary care about referral to a therapist if thats comfortable for you

Discipline and effort is an everyday thing that makes it easier to care. Its hard at first, but then it becomes muscle memory. You obviously care about the people around you, and noticed that it isnt what you want. That is already covering a lot of ground.

Asking people how they are, expressing yourself, checking in on others. It builds a foundation that gets stronger everyday. Like that bojack quote, the hard part is doing it everyday but it gets easier

Knx

2y

ya dont need d**** for this.

RRRBBB

2y

This is terrible advice

@op making connections is an ACTIVE effort for the most part. People dont just come into your life, you both do things that create connections with eachother.

I cant speak on the ADHD part, id suggest talking to your primary care about referral to a therapist if thats comfortable for you

Discipline and effort is an everyday thing that makes it easier to care. Its hard at first, but then it becomes muscle memory. You obviously care about the people around you, and noticed that it isnt what you want. That is already covering a lot of ground.

Asking people how they are, expressing yourself, checking in on others. It builds a foundation that gets stronger everyday. Like that bojack quote, the hard part is doing it everyday but it gets easier

fashion killa

2y

hmm i think the one thing ive gotta work on is expressing myself. I never tell people what's on my mind.

good advice btw thanks

RRRBBB

2y

Keep a journal for now, notes app anything. And you can lock your notes app for privacy. Literally just whats on your mind. Verbal vomit

Try writing about one feeling in various ways. For example, maybe the feeling is being slighted by someone. Write from perspectives of other people. How an angry person would respond, how a busy person would respond, how a carefree person would respond, etc. and treat it like you workin out the emotion muscle.

Find a way to talk that fits who you are. Maybe youre a talkative person, or maybe you say things succinctly and put out a one sentence truth bomb. Whatever works for you can be found through trial and vulnerability.

Invader HIM

2y

That’s what i’m saying. You either gonna change yourself to care about people coming and going or you not. Or like you said you might just find out that you worrying is pointless.

For me, shrooms heighten my feelings and make all my thoughts make sense. Found s*** out about myself i was questioning for years. Just throwing out the suggestion. But peace to you my guy