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dont compare that trash to rocky lol
Rocky is dusty af
ya thats why they making creed 3 in 2023…
joker fans man..
MBJ corny af
ya ur ktt username is "him" but he's the corny one...
since when was being "involuntarily celibate" a problem. I mean I get that timescale is wishy washy here, but we all go through dry spells, right? I mean everyone has experienced being h**** (wanting to have sex) and not having s***at least at some point in their lives. Purely technically, we've all been losers at some point or time.
I say, normalize that. A lot of these guys will hit whatever age they've been taught they're supposed to have s***by and just assume they've got to be freaks of nature or something. So much of the loser s*** is like a self-fulfilling prophecy. As soon as they identify with the label, it's over. I think that if there wasn't this huge social expectation to have sex, we'd see a lot less loser bullshit as these guys wouldn't feel so "othered".
We solve the "problem" of losers by first admitting that being involuntarily celibate isn't a problem, but just a part of life. Lots of people go without having sex, and that is okay. Keep ur head up, and hopefully u get some play soon. Second, have empathy for the losers. Don't kick them while they're down, help them get back on their feet. Yes, I know that's tricky given how hateful they can be.
since when was being "involuntarily celibate" a problem. I mean I get that timescale is wishy washy here, but we all go through dry spells, right? I mean everyone has experienced being h**** (wanting to have sex) and not having s***at least at some point in their lives. Purely technically, we've all been losers at some point or time.
I say, normalize that. A lot of these guys will hit whatever age they've been taught they're supposed to have s***by and just assume they've got to be freaks of nature or something. So much of the loser s*** is like a self-fulfilling prophecy. As soon as they identify with the label, it's over. I think that if there wasn't this huge social expectation to have sex, we'd see a lot less loser bullshit as these guys wouldn't feel so "othered".
We solve the "problem" of losers by first admitting that being involuntarily celibate isn't a problem, but just a part of life. Lots of people go without having sex, and that is okay. Keep ur head up, and hopefully u get some play soon. Second, have empathy for the losers. Don't kick them while they're down, help them get back on their feet. Yes, I know that's tricky given how hateful they can be.
It's deeper than just being "incapable of having sex" though
An loser (/ˈɪnsɛl/ IN-sel, a portmanteau of "involuntary celibate") is a member of an online subculture of people who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.
But you are right though, a lot of this comes down to education and knowledge. Our society places a lot of emphasis on the importance of finding "the one", but we never show these kids the amount of effort that a relationship requires- not only individually in terms of self improvement- but also on work in the relationship to make sure it lasts.
Hollywood also creates unrealistic fantasies of how healthy, long term relationships come about (man has to "win the girl over", etc). For a majority of people that are terminally online, they hold on to these Hollywood perceptions as though they were gospel, and have a hard time breaking out of these crystallized ideas. Furthermore, when they seek advice, people tend to give them inaccurate, cookie cutter-feel good advice like "be yourself" which can reinforce these types of Hollywood-esque notions. We also don't teach people at all about rejection as being a totally normal process
It's deeper than just being "incapable of having sex" though
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/loser
An loser (/ˈɪnsɛl/ IN-sel, a portmanteau of "involuntary celibate") is a member of an online subculture of people who define themselves as unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one.
But you are right though, a lot of this comes down to education and knowledge. Our society places a lot of emphasis on the importance of finding "the one", but we never show these kids the amount of effort that a relationship requires- not only individually in terms of self improvement- but also on work in the relationship to make sure it lasts.
Hollywood also creates unrealistic fantasies of how healthy, long term relationships come about (man has to "win the girl over", etc). For a majority of people that are terminally online, they hold on to these Hollywood perceptions as though they were gospel, and have a hard time breaking out of these crystallized ideas. Furthermore, when they seek advice, people tend to give them inaccurate, cookie cutter-feel good advice like "be yourself" which can reinforce these types of Hollywood-esque notions. We also don't teach people at all about rejection as being a totally normal process
im not an loser but if "be yourself" is inaccurate advice for dating then theres no point lmao
im mot gonna pretend to be someone im not to please others.
make active efforts individually and nationally to reduce p***ography - it all starts from there
If you get mad at this post - reply with the last time you watched p\*\*\*
im not an loser but if "be yourself" is inaccurate advice for dating then theres no point lmao
im mot gonna pretend to be someone im not to please others.
"Be yourself" isn't bad advice per say- it's misleading for losers that have character flaws that they need to work on, but that believe that they can't due to a flawed belief system
im not an loser but if "be yourself" is inaccurate advice for dating then theres no point lmao
im mot gonna pretend to be someone im not to please others.
losers being themselves is why they can't get p****. Sometimes you have to change yourself for the better and there's nothing wrong with that.
make active efforts individually and nationally to reduce p***ography - it all starts from there
If you get mad at this post - reply with the last time you watched p\*\*\*
Yeah let's blame p*** ....
I guess “loser” now is just a synonym for misogynist, in which case you will never solve it
This but more nuanced as well.
We identify losers not by their self proclamation of being losers anymore, rather we take our preconceived notions of what being an loser is and project that onto others who it may not apply to, which leads to the root issue of misogyny unaddressed.
I could very well be wrong, tho due to almost understanding why men become losers (at least in terms of self isolation from society/allowing others perceptions of them get to them), we should maybe try showing a little grace to those who aren't fully gone yet because it's not as black and white as people make it seem. Some losers can be saved, but not if we further isolate them from contemporary society.